what's happening friends welcome to the
bedrose cooling show this is a live
episode and in here we have Leighton
with me and uh we're gonna do a live
episode Leighton and um we're calling
this the only fans special because
that's right because
well we're going to raise money and this
is not what only fans does it takes it
takes girls don't act like you don't
know no I know I'm saying that's what
it's all about because that was the look
of yeah these these women these girls
who want to pay for their college and
law school and and and stuff like that
it helps them
pay for that yeah that's what only fans
does is what I've heard and so I've got
expenses I got [ __ ] I want to buy I got
things I want to do and so I'm doing uh
YouTube only fans and uh we're gonna
we're gonna pay but we're gonna give
this money to Shriners Shriners
children's hospital so all joking aside
guys
um we're gonna have an awesome time
today I'm here to coach you I'm here to
Mentor you I'm here to get laughed at by
you because God knows I've got a lisp
I'm a foreigner so some things I don't
pronounce well uh leighton's gonna guide
us through with your questions and if
you guys do those super chats is that
what they're called Super Chat super
chats yep yeah so if y'all do those
super chats um what we're going to do is
we're going to donate that money and
then I'm going to match all the money
that you guys are putting in through
super chats to ask your questions I'm
going to match that so we're going to
donate all of that to Shriners
children's hospital and I don't think I
did a great job explaining last time
what Shriners Children's Hospital is man
so about 12 years ago
um I was I was running a live event and
my friend Jim Saya he was a at the time
he was a Miami police officer and back
then cocaine was big in Miami and
um so he was
as a single dad raising a young boy who
had spinal issues he had spinal
curvature issues and as a cop on a cop
salary he didn't have enough money to
pay for all the medical bills and so
Shriners Children's Hospital comes in
and helps pay the bills of all medical
procedures for children whose families
can't afford it and when I started
donating to them some 12 years ago they
only had 11 hospitals Nationwide now
they've got 22 hospitals Nationwide and
we've we've donated seven figures and
Beyond and we continue to donate through
all of our companies through Fit Body
Boot Camp toys through Fit Body Boot
Camp truly coaching programs Etc so I
thought it'd be a cool thing to do what
do we do with these lives once a month
about once a month it looks like yeah so
once a month when we do these lives guys
what's going to happen is we're going to
donate 100 of the money that you guys
give through super chats so that I can
help you I'm going to match that money
and then donate it after Shriners so
last month we did 100 you guys paid 184
dollars in super chats I doubled that to
368 dollars and we donated that to
Shriners so thank you all we're doing
some awesome [ __ ] together as a tribe so
with that said let's get started man
here we go anything on your agenda to
talk about before so one question that I
wanted to ask is because I know people
are kind of getting started they're
about to start you know the questions
are going to start rolling in someone in
your DMs asked
um if you had the opportunity to do it
all over again yeah would you change the
industry that you started your business
in would you do anything differently and
then the second parts of that question
they asked or is that a losing mindset
to have like you know hey if I could do
it all over again yeah you know so that
was their question like would you change
anything if you if you could so I
personally wouldn't change anything
because Fitness transformed My Life um
if I haven't told the story on the
episodes uh and by the way you would
think I would remember my stories as I
tell them here on the show but I've kind
of explained to you guys here in the
studio what happens I literally make my
notes for every episode what I want to
talk about what message I want to impart
to you guys
um and then what call to action I want
to give you at the end so that you can
actually act on the message but once I
sit down in this chair dude I feel like
I'm just speaking through my Radiance
like Source just channels knowledge
through me to the audience and so I
don't know what stories I'm telling in
fact when I listen to the episode when
Ed sends me the edited version a week
before it goes up I'm like oh [ __ ]
that's what I said oh that's okay I
didn't realize I told that story and
this that and the other so anyway but um
I share that with everyone here because
uh Fitness to me like I was a fat kid
throughout Elementary School junior high
even in high school and I remember right
around 10th grade there was this girl
named Nakaya and I don't know man I
thought she was cute so I figured all
right you know it'd be nice to be able
to date her and so 11th grade comes and
I haven't made any moves on her and I
remember talking to
one of the football players who played
football from Savannah High School my
high school and I said hey man you're in
great shape and you're my science lab
partner like can you can you teach me
how to get in great shape so I can ask
Nakai to the prom next year right so he
takes me to the school gym that
afternoon and that was the first time I
was introduced to weight room he taught
me how to the foods that I should eat to
burn fat build muscle and I spent the
summer before senior year literally just
working out like a machine and eating
right and so I come back senior year and
I've like I've lost like 30 35 pounds
I'm leaner I'm stronger I'm more
confident
I never had the the balls to ask Nakaya
to the prom so I never went to the prom
full disclosure but Fitness changed my
life so for me personally it did not
if I can go back I wouldn't change a
thing because my greatest fear would be
that the lessons along the way that I've
learned that I get to now in part here
maybe I wouldn't have gotten those
lessons yeah there have been like a
financial industry that I could have
gone into and probably made money faster
because there have been some kind of
other thing sure you know but going back
to the second part of your question I
think it is a losing statement to go man
if I can only go back and do this
because there's this um if you guys
Google
emotional frequency vibration chart and
you look go to Google Images emotional
frequency vibration chart you'll see
that our emotions our thoughts our
feelings everything has vibration to it
a frequency to it
and regret
and guilt and shame have the lowest
vibration and frequency level whereas
acceptance is kind of in the middle on
that on that pyramid I'd rather accept
the fact that maybe I didn't do things
right back then accept it and move on to
Joy Bliss happiness fulfillment which
has the highest vibrational frequency
than live and regret so there's a lesson
there there it is boom I love it man all
right so we got some questions rolling
in I was seeing in my in my peripheral
vision so what's the first question
let's go to the very top first question
is
uh from Kevin Eck he says BK just wanted
to thank you for the show and all the
gems you dropped no questions just
wanted to donate right on man thank you
how much should we donate uh five bucks
right on dude I see someone donated to
10 bucks Craig Williams Oh man it's
coming in we're going to get to a
question right now too JT says do you
have any advice for upcoming personal
trainers yes advice for upcoming
personal trainers understand that the
landscape has changed so if you're a
personal trainer you're going to work
one-on-one with people or you're going
to do some kind of Group Training and a
gym gym environment or Outdoors or
whatever understand that people don't
have the same motivation and
accountability that you and I have right
we are like we've Fallen madly in love
with Fitness and so you have to make it
fun I learned very quickly because I was
never a great technical trainer like I
didn't know the exact form of every
exercise to be honest with you in fact
tell you a fun story uh one of the years
that I worked at the LA Fitness
in La Habra and I love this guy that I'm
going to tell the story about his name
is Michael Sorel he was the nsca
personal trainer of the year nsca is a
big certification organization and
Michael Sorel who is a friend of mine
was was personal trainer of the year uh
I wouldn't I would probably be like the
last personal trainer of like the
Millennium right if nsca had like who's
the the number zero that would be me uh
back then but
he because he walked by me one time when
I was training a client and he mumbled
to me he goes he goes hey you're going
to hurt that client and I was like and I
was a bit of an [ __ ] to him I was
like well at least my clients keep
coming back because what I knew was that
if I could keep the workouts fun if I
could keep them entertained if I can
keep them moving and if I could if I
could be their best friend they're
looking forward to seeing their best
friend three four times a week at the
gym because the gym is intimidating to
them it's full of Meat Heads that Grunt
and groan it's got equipment that they
have no idea what this equipment is I
knew that if I could get them back that
even my shitty workouts that have
probably having a high probability of
getting them injured right would produce
results and that's what I did whereas I
saw that the other technical trainers
who were maybe buy the book the best
trainers but they didn't have
personality they didn't have character
they didn't have Charisma they didn't
know how to flirt and joke and build
relationships they didn't have that
commitment from their clients and so the
biggest advice I can give is understand
the soft skills required there's hard
skills like understand how the adenosine
triphosphate system works understand how
good what good form is understand how
Muscle Recovery takes place Etc but then
the soft skills are you know is Mrs
Jones emotionally off is Mr Jones upset
can you talk them off the ledge and help
them have a better workout and ask them
what's going on and maybe maybe be that
friend that ear that they need right in
that moment so that they don't go home
and emotionally eat like I did I had
mastered the soft skills of building
Rapport like ability asking questions
are you okay is everything fine
something seems to be off with you
what's what's bothering you and when
people would open up to me only days
later they would go like hey man I'm
really glad you talked to me about that
like you saved me from like going home
and eating a bag of bagels or Donuts or
whatever so the soft skills matter
number one and number two for this guy
I would tell them the Embrace online
coaching like every personal trainer
today should be a hybrid coach of in
person and online because we don't know
if there's going to be another pandemic
we don't know if gyms are going to get
shut down and when they do you don't
want to be the person that launches your
online coaching business when everything
shuts down you want to have that already
set up operational so that you can just
scale it when the next pandemic comes
not if because we all know how the
[ __ ] opposition works
it goes man all right so Craig Williams
he donated 10 bucks he didn't have a
question it doesn't look like he didn't
write anything so he just supported the
work right on thank you Craig appreciate
it man I'm gonna double that donate that
to Shriners there we go and your man Mr
Botticelli he says beijos can you talk
more about becoming an outstanding
public speaker any tips for novices uh
Botticelli all right so by the way shout
out to Michael Botticelli everyone
should follow him uh Mr B uh history
with Mr B on YouTube uh he's a dear
friend of mine known him for going on
some 22 23 25 years but
um
public speaking is this man you've got
its point
metaphor story
um or story metaphor point right you can
go either way it's like the point let's
say uh you might say Hey look
keeping
keeping stress holding on to stress of
past traumas of past mistakes
is a waste of time like that's the point
right so let's say I'm making a point
doing a talk
and then
the metaphor might be
it's like carrying a bag of heavy bricks
with you throughout your life
like holding on to that old stress that
old trauma that old story is like
carrying a bag of bricks with you that
whole time you gave an example a
metaphor people can Vision Envision
going through life holding a bag of
heavy bricks it's a difficult life to do
that and then you might give a story
from your life I remember when I did
that
and I was trying to start a business the
weight of all of my guilt or shame or
trauma or whatever
ended up exhausting me and therefore
took longer to start my business right
so really the whole idea of a great
powerful message a talk is to be able to
make a point
share that point through a metaphor and
then give a story or an example from
your life
once you can do that then you become a
good Storyteller when you become a good
Storyteller people want to listen
because human behavior you came to our
house when we had that big party
um in December like the party takes
place on the pool deck and around the
house and then the porch Etc but all
parties always end up around the fire
pit before you know it every time I'd
look towards the fire pit it's always
full there's a whole bunch of y'all
sitting there around the fire pit it was
always a new group every hour around the
fire pit because as humans we want to
sit around fire or something and tell
stories the whole Bible is written in
Stories the Bible is just a rule book of
life like live this way to be a good
human but if it was just like rule one
do this rule two do that it would be
kind of boring but because there's
stories in the Bible we learn best
through stories and so if you want to be
a good Storyteller you have to or a
public speaker you have to be able to be
a Storyteller you have to use points and
metaphors and life examples which means
you have to have vulnerability you have
to make people think make them laugh
make them cry
and if you could do all of that then you
do it for sets and Reps as in get you
know two three four dozen
public speaking events under your belt
to start getting comfortable because I
remember it took me about good two dozen
three dozen events to start feeling
comfortable and even then when I would
get on stage where hell even now when I
get on stage there's 2 000 or 5 000
person audience I still get a little
nervous but I know that I've got the
Reps and the sets under my belt they're
going to help me get through this talk
and typically once in about two three
minutes into the talk
I've gained proficiency and I just feel
this like relaxation come over me just
like I do during the podcast and I just
feel like source is just speaking
through me but that takes the sets and
Reps to do there we go yeah just a
little I kind of want to touch on that a
little bit do you have any tips on like
uh things you actually do while you're
talking like for example some people
will say look above people's heads
instead of looking them in the eye so
it'll make it doesn't make you as
nervous or like stuff like that yeah
like that or yeah yeah so so I'll give
you a couple of my hacks
um I used to do that look above people's
heads but I realized you're not
connecting with people now I try and
connect with as far deep into the
audience as I can so I started the first
row and I look individuals in their eyes
as I'm talking and I'm shaking my head
and they'll shake their head and I do
something and they'll repeat it because
we mimic each other you're doing that
right now you're shaking your head as
I'm shaking my head and so when we do
this but you have to get comfortable
because now you're on stage you're
controlling the audience's emotions
right and so that's a big responsibility
man you're controlling their state their
emotions their thoughts their feelings
your showing vulnerability you feel
exposed because the lights are on you
you can't see the whole audience
depending how big it is just because of
the auditorium or the Coliseum lights or
whatever but if you if I can see 15 20
rows deep I'm trying to make eye contact
with everyone because I want that deep
connection thing number one thing number
two is I'm always
anchoring different sides of the stage
like I'll anchor left side middle right
side left side middle
uh
uh left right side and the reason I do
that is I found that when I've been in
audiences if I'm sitting on the on this
side of the room and the speaker's on
just my side well that's cool lucky me
but if I'm on this side of the room the
speaker's only hanging out where he's
comfortable on the right side and I'm on
the left side I'm like bro what about me
right you just feel like left out so I
want to be able to spread myself out
over that stage as much as possible and
so if you can do that and you can make
eye contact
uh you're gonna win and here's a little
secret do not ask a question of the
audience that you do not know the answer
the last big speaking event I was at
one of the big blue check mark guys that
I'm sure everybody here follows one of
my dear friends I don't want to say his
name to embarrass him but he said who
here has read my book and he raised his
hand and and uh he said the title of his
book and not a lot of hands went up and
he felt like oh my God I just got egg on
my face right so if you don't know that
they've read your book now if the event
coordinator let's say part of the deal
was they're going to buy a copy of your
book in advance and send it to all the
attendees bro you could totally say that
because odds are a lot of hands are
going to go up because they all read
your book but if you don't know the the
audience's response to your question
don't ask that question because you
might be left
embarrassed on stage sure it kind of
distills your thunder
exactly exactly so
um this one isn't a super chat but I
think it's a really good question to ask
um where is it where is it it says what
to do if you lose your job
um and how do you not fall into
negativity and self-pity things out of
my control are ruining my life Kaylee
asked that question yeah so what do you
do if you lose your job and how do you
not just you just move on just like in
all of life you got to learn to move on
let go and move on
like what is hand ringing gonna do what
is feeling pity going to do what is now
let me drink my my way into my sorrows
gonna do let me let me Vape or or smoke
a joint my way into escaping from my
reality like all right because I've done
this before I I literally lost a job on
Balboa Island out in Newport Beach many
years ago I was probably 18 years old I
lost a job I was having I got fired I
was having such a pity party for myself
that I stopped into like four or five
different fast food restaurants on the
way home to Anaheim to just eat away my
sorrow I was just having a pity party
and I remember them feeling just gross
and sick and feeling like why did I just
eat all this [ __ ] like why am I like
hand ringing and feeling like a victim
like I did something stupid I got fired
why am I making a big deal out of this
today if I could go back to my old self
and go let go learn from it don't repeat
it at your next job and move on it's the
best advice I can give you here we go
um Karina Flores asks she says any plans
to have podcasts or books done in
Spanish I would love to share these
messages to the people in my life man I
would really appreciate that um I don't
I don't know if my book man up has been
published in Spanish I don't think it
has because of this podcast actually you
guys are putting my book back on the
charts we hit the Wall Street Journal uh
bestseller list back when I launched it
in 2018 and I actually got an email from
my publisher saying that he's printing
15 000 more copies for Amazon and
bookstores because you guys are buying
my book man up uh I assume it's because
of the show there's no other reason
because the bedrose cooling show is
popping off because of every single one
of you but I don't it's not going to be
published in Spanish it's the
Publisher's book now because I sell them
the rights to my book and then of course
the podcast I wouldn't even know like
hell you speak Spanish unless you stood
here and translated I wouldn't know how
to make this and do this thing we could
make it happen yeah I mean like you know
like the deaf person the the right
am I doing this right but uh
I wouldn't know how I appreciate you
wanting to share but I just don't know
how that would happen if there's
technology that we can push a button and
it would translate and do a voiceover
where it looks like one of those old
kung fu movies where my lips are going
one way but the voice is going another
I'm down for that cool there we go
um Larry Gonzalez he he asked uh if you
could repeat what the name of the chart
was it was emotional uh frequency chart
right what was it how do you say it yeah
yeah it's uh
emotional frequency chart if you just
Google emotional frequency chart and hit
images you'll find it there it goes so
Andrew if you can if you I don't know if
everyone can see the chat box in here
but if you can Google that find a little
triangle with all the words next to it
and the vibrational frequencies and put
in the chat box man I'd appreciate it
perfect do that too all right Drake
um he asks uh hey bajros I'm making
progress with habits of working out and
moving down a GSD list I'm sticking to
it no matter what but how can I feel
pulled toward my goals instead of
pushing all the time
well it's a matter of time at first you
are going to push right uh my friend
Sean Whalen uh Line's not cheap got to
give him a shout out great dude he gave
an example that he he learned this from
some other guy uh but we were speaking
at an event and he shared this and I
want to share with you guys
um and basically he tells the story of
the tugboat and the lighthouse they both
do the same thing they bring boats
ashore right the tugboat has to push and
pull the boats to shore the lighthouse
sits there and shines its light and
attracts the boats to shore at first we
when we create GSD lists when we create
new habits we create new routines we
create new structure we are pushing and
pulling our goals
into existence right you do this long
enough like the 10 000 hour rule you
develop Mastery so I'm talking three
four five six years
you will start attracting your life's
Mission your purpose your your your next
vocation your next business partner but
to become the lighthouse first you have
to become the tugboat and just push and
pull in prod to get to the outcome that
you want so it's not as easy as it
sounds but if everything in life was
easy imagine what a sad pathetic life
we'd live we wouldn't have any adversity
to test ourselves against we wouldn't
have anything to challenge ourselves
against so I highly recommend that you
keep sticking to that GSD list you keep
sticking to your work that you do your
routine even on the days that you don't
feel motivated or inspired lean on to
discipline and before you know it a
couple of years have gone by and you're
like holy [ __ ] like I feel like I'm just
attracting my best life and it's because
you and the universe are now at one
right but right now the universe is like
bro I don't know if this is temporary or
permanent I don't know if you're just
faking it or not I don't know if you
deserve to attract awesomeness in your
life yet so I'm gonna let you earn it by
making it painful and that's okay we
have to push and pull get in your scars
getting your scars battle scars are
important awesome
um how do you say this cryptaniel
donates and by the way thanks guys for
donating uh if you're just now tuning in
just a reminder that anybody that
donates uh through via Super Chat it's
going to be doubled by Pedros and
donated to Shriners children's hospital
so it's for a good cause thank you guys
for your donations thus far I just want
to remind you guys or let you know if
you don't already know uh cryptaniel
oops it went went down there goes what
is the biggest step for applying
discipline mentally
the biggest step for applying discipline
mentally
it's a lot of steps it is doing it
consistently until the soft habit
becomes a solidified pattern of life
like discipline is just a solidified
pattern of life so something that's
unfamiliar to you you do it consistently
even when you don't feel like it even
when you're tired even when it's raining
even when it's cold outside even if you
didn't sleep well even if you wake up
angry and cranky like I do most mornings
even when your shoulder hurts like it's
been the last couple nights for me you
just do it through consistency and then
that becomes what's known as a soft
habit you start developing like habitual
patterns and then it becomes a solid
habit just like smoking drinking when
people have a habit of like coming home
kicking their shoes off not organizing
their [ __ ] like that's just a hard habit
right it started off as a shitty little
pattern that was a soft little habit
that became like a permanent habit that
you now have to deconstruct like that's
all you know social drinking is and and
that's all weed is and all these little
bad habits that you have you could
Reverse by first starting to
consistently do the opposite and so if
you want discipline
do it consistently until it becomes a
pattern of life for you there we go uh
it's funny that you just said that right
now you said that's what weed is you
suggested that one of the questions says
what are your thoughts on weed videos
all right look man I my thoughts on
wheat or this I used to smoke weed very
irregularly and I'm talking like maybe
three four times a year I would smoke a
half a joint three four times a year to
help me go to sleep and then another two
to three four times a year I would eat
like a little gummy bear like a you know
two to three milligram gummy bear that
had THC in it
recently I stopped that I stopped that
because I realized it wasn't serving me
anymore I realized I was creating a
dependency not an addiction but I was I
had connected the dots in my head just
like you know with social drinking that
you know because I'm an introvert so if
I'm out socially I feel a little awkward
which is why I crack weird awkward jokes
about only fans and [ __ ] like that
because this kind of stuff still makes
me feel nervous like I'd rather be
upstairs in my office making us millions
of dollars that's what is naturally
factory installed for me it's just like
put me in my office with a couple of
laptops and my iPhone and I can make us
millions of dollars and drive traffic
and make sales but I feel called to do
this and this makes me nervous so
imagine if I was like well to take the
edge off let me just have a shot of
tequila before I come downstairs to the
studio here right well that starts
creating this pattern this dependency of
like I could only be loosey-goosey
comfortable when I have that shot of
tequila I can only be social when I have
that cocktail or two and that's that's
when I started to get there with weed
like I could only have good sleep when I
have you know a little bit of weed in me
I was like oh [ __ ] you're
developing dependency so if you don't
have an issue with it you are
functioning just fine you know your
higher self does not is not knocking on
your door with anxiety or guilt or
depression and making you feel bad about
it then that means you're good like you
always have to check in with your higher
self my higher self was like dude you're
done with weed you're done with alcohol
I felt it I listened and I have full
control of my faculties now that doesn't
mean that you've got to stop it but I
would suggest
that you tune into yourself
because I can promise you 10 years from
now you're going to have one you're
going to want to stop it I don't know
anyone who is successful and is north of
40 years old who consistently smokes
weed that doesn't mean they don't exist
I'm saying majority that used to
sometime after 40 we realize like ah
this doesn't serve me anymore and I wish
I could have stopped sooner or I wish I
would have stopped sooner right just
taking even more self-control right but
I didn't and so I'm passing it out along
to do with it what you will here we go
I've got another question so this person
their their name at least their username
just has A's the letter a is on it so I
don't know how you say that if that's
the actual name they ask though they say
what do you recommend for an immigrant
who cannot legally work in the U.S
because they said they can't work until
I'm 21 I'm currently 16.
work anyway
if you're an immigrant to this country
work anyway
find out find a way to make money
legally
when I say legally meaning don't go
selling drugs on the streets or
something
um
because some laws are unjust and I
believe that's an unjust law so if you
can ethically make money and you're like
yeah but I don't know how to pay my
taxes because I have to get paid under
the table cool tell you what take 20 of
the money that you make and go give it
to the church that you go to or send it
to Shriners Children's Hospital right
and then you can just say that's your
taxes that you're going to pay but find
a way to make money ethically serve
others do good work for cash when you
can become a legal citizen serve this
country in any ways that you can whether
it's going into the military whether
it's doing what I do to uh to to help
people in this country stand up and have
a backbone and speak out against the
opposition like whatever your way of
serving the country is give back because
if you're here in this country as an
immigrant it's because you weren't happy
with where you were and that means you
came here for a better life that means
we have a responsibility as immigrants
to ensure and help those who were born
here and don't know what a shitty life
looks like
by the way I want to go on a rant like
most okay it's yes my show so I can't
right exactly how about that
um most of y'all that are born here in
the United States don't realize how good
this country is and how good you have it
and because of that you complain about
it and when the opposition starts
eroding away your first amendment Second
Amendment making you wear a diaper on
your face for what is otherwise the
common cold or whatever you begin to
accept it you begin to accept mandates
that deep down inside you know are not
right you know are not just you know are
not ethical but you do it anyway and
slowly they begin to encroach and erode
your freedoms while an immigrant who
comes here goes hey man I come from a
communist country I know what oppression
is I know what encroachment on my rights
are and so I'm here because I feel I
have more opportunity but that Gap is
closing like we are very close to losing
our freedoms in this country the
Constitution is soon going to be a
memory if enough of the people who were
born here don't understand how awesome
this country is and that we must not let
a single millimeter of our freedom be
taken away and so this young man or
woman who says I'm 16 years old I can't
legally work what should I do I say
legally work find a way somebody will
pay you if you can add value to their
business even if they're paying you
under the table and it's cash find a way
to give back so that you feel like
you're doing good for this country love
it man all right Aunt 50 donates uh I
don't know he or she asks you once said
to find your purpose ask yourself what
you really want to do oh sorry they're
saying find your purpose ask yourself
what you really want to do for free what
should I do if nothing really grabs my
attention enough that I would want to do
it for free
no then what's the next best thing you
would do for money right simple yeah
then then do that if there's nothing
that you would do for free and by the
way when I say find something that you
would do for free because you love it so
much then the next phrase of that is and
be so good at it that people pay you to
do it I'm not saying go find something
and do it for free and be a homeless bum
you know living off the streets I'm
saying like what would you do for free
if someone paid for your life for your
for your for your bills for your
lifestyle for your health insurance you
know you had money in the bank no matter
what if you can be like man I would do
that cool be so good at it that people
pay you if you don't quite know what
that thing is then find the next best
thing like what do I like maybe you
don't know what you love that you would
do for free but what do you like to do
what do you do where time goes by
quickly and you're like man I don't even
realize three hours just went by or
eight hours just went by go do that and
do it for money and get so good at it
that you're in the top one to five
percent because the top one to five
percent in almost any industry is making
a grip of money and they're doing well
for themselves and they have good sense
of satisfaction and fulfillment from
that as well exactly man all right Mark
Christensen Donuts he says hey bajos I'm
still trying to be I'm still trying to
fully be an entrepreneur puts in
parentheses two years in and break away
from my old employee habits and thoughts
any tips thanks man he's still trying to
do what I think he's trying I think he's
trying to say that uh he's uh used to
being an employee having that employee
mindset he's a newer entrepreneur he
says two years in but he's having
trouble breaking away from those old
employee habits yeah so um he's just
asking for any uh tips there is no tips
that's just just stop it just stop it
you know I'm gonna tell you a story
about Samantha Taylor she was in my
seven figure formula Mastermind and she
had told me something like this so my
Mastermind at the time it was two days
long and on day one we do a lot of
teaching on day two was the hot seats
where you know I would ask each
individual coaching client like what is
the biggest bottleneck you have in your
business or what is the biggest
opportunity you have in your business
that we can fix and uh so anyway I get
to Samantha Taylor and I love her to
pieces and so Samantha's like well I've
got this problem
that I keep doing and I know it's not
it's not a good habit to do
what should I do about it I was like
just don't do it
she goes that's it I go yeah just don't
do it so bro I'm telling you right here
now if you were an employee and you've
got employee old employee minded habits
uh in other words what you're saying is
you really stole from your boss because
you could have done more you could have
probably made your made that company
more money and if any of you here and
I'm guessing a lot of you here have a
job if or a career you chose that job or
career man no one's holding you hostage
there so [ __ ] make that boss a lot of
money and show gratitude I'm here to
tell you now I wish I would have shown
more gratitude and appreciation for the
jobs that I had I was a bit of an
[ __ ] but I also knew I was
unemployable I'm glad I got fired from
like most of the three jobs that I had
because if I didn't get fired I would
have probably driven those businesses
that I worked for into bankruptcy
because I just wasn't a good employee I
was living in like my dreams thinking
about like what I'm going to do to make
money and so what I should have done I
wish there was someone like me saying
look
hey you want to be an entrepreneur one
day great but in the meantime every day
that you're an employee show up like
you're on the [ __ ] business and and
work hard at it so I'm telling you that
right now and if you're the dude that is
now an entrepreneur but you still have
old employee mindset and behavior
[ __ ] stop it dude like I told
Samantha Taylor just stop it because
you're you're just going to putz along
in life and at some point you're going
to find a woman get married have kids
and then be that dad and husband who's
absent because you never made enough
money because you weren't focused and
consistent and disciplined enough to put
a leadership team in place and to scale
the company to buy back your time to
have life freedom and so now you've got
like a wife who wants a divorce and like
I'm fast forwarding through this
person's life right now and I'm telling
you that's how it's gonna end up if they
stand this path of being a [ __ ]
employee-minded loser
and I'm saying employee-minded loser on
purpose because I don't look at anyone
who works in our building here as an
employee these are all team members like
we do episodes here where we say well
after five o'clock no one [ __ ]
complains we just do our thing because
we're a team and we work as a unified
front this is the Pedro's coolian show
but it's our show I'm excited and
they're just excited for every
subscriber that we get on board for
every listener that we get because we
know that it's a unified goal like I'm
mentoring every one of my team members
but when I had employees
I had so much resentment against them
because I felt like they're trying to
steal time from me and I need to get my
money's worth from them like I don't
want that kind of a push-pull
relationship I want to be a unified
front as a team so now that you have
your own business my friend
do everything you can to let it Thrive
otherwise you will end up hiring someone
like you
Karma will end up bringing someone just
like you into your company who will
bleed your company dry because you chose
not to have discipline consistency and
focus
speed man I got a super chat from Owen
Carney by the way man check out all the
dude you guys are awesome man thank you
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right Owen Carney uh asks what would be
your best advice to an introverted
entrepreneur trying to network
oh man that's me an introverted
entrepreneur trying to network so here's
what I learned in in terms of networking
if you're an introvert just come with a
giving hand so instead of like hey
here's what you can do for me I just
come to everyone that I meet I'm like
Hey man nice to meet you I'm a big fan
like if I follow them on social media or
YouTube or whatever hey I'm a big fan
you know I love what you do
um here's what I'd like to do for you or
what can I do for you I always come with
the giving hand what can I do for you or
here's what I could do for you and what
I found is and there's a great book out
there called influence by Robert
cialdini in his book influence Robert
cialdini talks about the six weapons of
influencing people right one of those
weapons of influence is reciprocity and
so if I come to you with the giving hand
if I do something good for you if I add
value to your life you're going to feel
reciprocity to want to do something good
for me so my best way of networking for
an introvert is just to come with the
giving hand introduce yourself tell
people how awesome they are figure out a
way that you can add value to their life
and then they will organically go hey
man how can I help you and I go well you
know I got a podcast you can promote
I've got a product you can buy I've got
a book you can promote whatever but that
is the best way of networking like and
then thing two is to get within
proximity I believe proximity Is Power
if you are in proximity of powerful
people like shaking hands meeting them
breaking bread with them
um that is so much more impactful than
reaching out to them via DM and trying
to network with them because if they're
worth networking with you should find
where they're speaking what event
they're running where they're going to
be and then meet up there and connect
with them here we go
all right so this next person forgive me
whoever whoever this is I'm gonna Butch
your name I know it for sure DeWitt
jigsaw it says I'm 19. I came to the USA
through student visa but planning to
drop out college and follow the
entrepreneurial pass path thinking this
they want to say any advice on how I can
build that foundation in order to be
successful at successful entrepreneur in
the USA yes so first off welcome to the
country secondly if you're going to drop
out of college and become an
entrepreneur I'm guessing that you
already have some money saved up to be
able to live off of why you're going to
start your business so what I would
suggest is find people who are already
in the industry that you're in and
they're doing well doesn't matter if
you're in the financial industry in the
Product Industry supplement industry
apparel industry find people in whatever
industry that you're already in and
watch what they're doing that's the cool
thing about social media you get to kind
of see how they're marketing how they're
branding how they're building Their
audience and then reach out to them and
go hey can I maybe be an intern for you
I will do free work in exchange for
mentorship from you that is one of the
fastest ways to actually become
successful as an entrepreneur is to find
someone who's already
doing what you want to do and is already
where you want to be in that industry
and then figuring out you could either
pay them for coaching or you could pay
them with Sweat Equity in other words
doing work for them for free in exchange
for the value of them coaching and
mentoring you
that's what I would do and that would
almost guarantee success because success
leaves Clues and if this person's
successful I would assume that they're
going to give you the right strategies
that help them get there so you'll get
there even faster because you'll avoid
all the mistakes that they made exactly
exactly we go Debbie Henry asks on 36
how do I find out what I'm supposed to
do in life outside of my family people
say find something you're great at but
I'm not great at any one thing
you don't have to be great at any one
thing like I'm I'm great at a few things
I'm good at a few things
um I think it's just overthinking like
this person wants to know like how do I
find what I'm good at right which again
go back to what you would do where time
goes by quickly that's called Flow State
like you've certainly done something in
your life where time has gone quickly
you might say yeah but that was a fun
thing I was surfing I was skating I was
skydiving great you know
you might want to get so good at that
that people pay you to become
more proficient at skating or surfing or
skydiving or whatever your thing is like
what you might think is Leisure and
that's what you know put you in a flow
State there's people that want to learn
that skill and if you get so good with
it where you can have a YouTube channel
you can have an online course you could
have an in-person training program like
dude you could do it it's it's
overthinking
oftentimes most people
use the idea of I don't know what I'm
good at as a form of procrastination
like
pick something and if you pick the wrong
thing that's okay you could always stop
and pick the next thing if you realize
that that wasn't your purpose and path
in life but by not picking anything
you're really procrastinating because
people have I think two big fears fear
of failure
and fear of success
and so they live in this like Purgatory
state in between failure and success of
just getting by and I think that's you
know when we talk about mediocrity
living average like that is the average
person they're just getting by I'd
rather
have this big lofty dream and vision and
go all in on it and fail miserably and
dust myself off and try again yeah then
to live in this Purgatory State between
failure and success like everybody else
like that is a life wasted for sure and
on that note too man I want to I want to
kind of share something because I don't
I know that there's no excuse of
not necessarily being good at any one
thing or not having a skill even if you
don't know you have a skill there's a
there's a YouTube channel that I thought
about when you said uh you can make a
YouTube channel you can teach people
certain things whatever right teach them
a new skill yeah there's a YouTube
channel I don't know what the name of
the YouTube channel is I can't remember
my wife always puts it on for my
daughter she watches it but I know some
parents in there will probably know out
for me describing it it's his family and
they literally just film like the the
chaos that goes on in the house like
there's a bunch of kids in there you
know there's there's one room the kids
are arguing fighting someone's building
Legos over here and whatever my daughter
loves that show they got millions of
subscribers that's crazy I don't even
understand why she's entertained by it
but she's drawn to the to the to the to
the TV and obviously millions of other
people and so you literally can film the
chaos in your life and somebody will
find entertaining so right you can you
can do absolutely anything man it's just
I'm so glad you brought that up because
there is no there is no shortage of
money making things I'm guessing the mom
and dad in that family at some point
were like this is so chaotic I bet
people would pay watch you know what I'm
just going to film this put phones
iPhones everywhere cameras everywhere
film it edit it put it on YouTube and
see if people will pay and before you
know it you've got an audience people
love reality shows it is a reality show
that's completely unscripted I imagine
if they're kids going bananas and then
YouTube goes hey you've got such a big
audience we're going to actually run ads
and monetize and now you're making money
while being home with your kids the
whole time like what a great opportunity
it's like
I'm telling you overthinking is is a
form of procrastination when people go I
don't know what my purpose is like no
you do you're just afraid of either
failing at it or being successful with
it because when you're successful
because people go well why would I be
successful it's obvious why people would
be afraid of failure yeah
you would say well why would I be afraid
of success well because with success
comes judgment people are going to judge
you like just Google my name and see how
many like there's sites that are
dedicated to Jesus and Gandhi and Mother
Teresa that to talk about how awful
humans they were you don't think their
sites dedicated to hating on me you
don't think there's sites dedicated to
hating on Joe Rogan and Jordan Peterson
and and others like with success you are
going to have haters critics
you're going to be judged and that is
something that people have a hard time
coping with not realizing that after a
while you just fresh run out of [ __ ]
and don't care like exactly I don't care
like go make the next YouTube video
bashing on me it doesn't it doesn't
matter uh speaking of which Joe Rogan I
just mentioned Joe Rogan a funny story
two days ago
um I was in Vegas
and uh I won't share the hotel that I
was staying at because Joe stays there
as well and uh so I left breakfast and
I'm walking towards the elevators
and I'm looking down the hallway and I
see
like this short stocky dude wearing this
cool shirt which I later identified as
the uh The Knife Company half face
blades I think it's a Navy SEAL who
created the uh Knife Company and so
half face blades I re I recognize the
logo because they were kind enough to
send me a a knife and I was like oh
that's their logo so I'm looking at this
guy's shirt and as my my gaze has gone
up like holy [ __ ] that's Joe Rogan and
then as I look there's like Tower three
towering dudes around him I'm like
that's got to be his security and since
we're friends with Tim Kennedy and I
remember Tim saying that he set up the
security for Rogan and I know how
violent Tim is I'd never met Rogan but
we made eye contact and I was like
these [ __ ] are gonna either
attack me if I try and say what's up
hello what's going on like we have
mutual friends so I just gave him a nod
I got the nod and we just kept going by
this was two days ago uh but anyway I
realized he was there I was there for
for an event and he was there for the
UFC event that just took place yeah here
we go man yeah the nod man the
international sign of mutual respect
that's right mutual respect and don't
have your goons shoot me exactly
all right uh ghost was Ghost 59 hey I
don't know how you say that anyways you
know what I'm talking about this person
donates and asks what is your best
advice for someone who does software and
wants to create a product Oh man if you
have software and you want to create a
product uh first of all I would have you
go follow clever programmer on YouTube
uh clever programmer Rafa Kazi he's our
dude he's one of my coaching clients and
he teaches people software programming
and uh he has a lot of great ideas on
how you can monetize software and how
you can create a product out of it but I
don't know what this guy's product is so
I can necessarily tell him here's how
you monetize it but I'm an investor in a
SAS company by the way if any of you are
gym owners if you own a gym you ought to
be using fit Pro tracker fit Pro tracker
it is the front desk management system
that we use for Fit Body bootcamp I've
invested in that company and so full
disclosure I have equity in that company
but I left the biggest Front Desk
Company
software company we left that as a brand
and we moved Fit Body bootcamp to fit
Pro tracker it's a SAS which is software
as a service Payment Processing
marketing automation Etc at a whole new
level for gym owners so check out fit
Pro tracker but I don't know what this
guy's business is specifically so I
don't know how he would monetize it but
I bet you if he followed Rafa Kazi who's
one of my coaching clients clever
programmer he would get a lot of great
ideas from it some good value there we
go all right so Robert Mendoza didn't
have a question it doesn't look like he
didn't write anything but he donated
some money so shout out to you thank you
Rob I appreciate it
next question below that is
how do you pronounce that
is no no but I got to say hi to someone
uh I don't know if you see that 100
donation right there yeah yeah Robbie
Blanchard he is one of my original
coaching clients he says uh grateful for
you and everything you've done for me B
keep crushing it uh guys you got to
follow Robbie Blanchard too on Instagram
like if you want to learn how to make
money selling other people's products
online and he's the real deal like
I'm going to tell you a fun story about
Robbie Blanchard please so Robbie if
you're still watching this correct me on
the facts if I'm wrong with anything but
Robbie was in a mastermind program that
me and Craig Valentine ran together and
Robbie uh at the time on the CrossFit
gym and so he created an info product
called double your double unders do you
know what a double under is no I didn't
know either it's like when you do a jump
rope but the Rope goes under your feet
twice okay yeah yeah yeah yeah so his
whole thing is double your double Enders
so get really good at your double under
jump ropes because it's a CrossFit thing
right so he's like man I created the
course I created the program
um you know
how do I Market this I'm like dude you
got to have Affiliates mail out for you
like you got to find other people that
have your future customers that have
email lists or that have gym products or
fat loss or Fitness Products uh and give
them like you know 50 60 70 commission
so that they'll mail out for you they'll
promote your product with an affiliate
link and so you know 90 days go by
Robbie comes back to the Mastermind
we're meeting up in person again as a as
a team and hey Robbie have you done that
yet no man you know I reached out to
this affiliate and that affiliate and I
didn't hear back and and Robbie is just
like me introverted I hate asking people
to do me a solid which is why I always
try and come with the giving hand
because if I can come with the giving
hand then people will just want to help
me which is how my whole life has been I
just try and help as many people as I
can and as a byproduct people help me
and uh so so Robbie's like no man I
tried reaching out to people it's just
awkward I don't want to [ __ ] beg them
to like mail and promote my product and
so out of some frustration I'm like well
Bob Robbie if you can't if you're not
going to Mel like reach out to
Affiliates like like a thousand
Affiliates to get 100 of them to promote
for you then you better get damn good at
running Facebook ads
guess what he does next okay my Savage
he bake became a [ __ ] Savage at
running Facebook ads to sell his own
product blows it up to the tune of
millions and now he teaches
others how to do the exact same thing
like basically to be an affiliate using
paid traffic buying paid traffic to
promote other people's products so so
much respect for this dude uh so again
those of you that are looking like hey
where do I start in terms of making
money like you could do this as a side
gig uh just go follow Robbie Blanchard
and um there you go and I don't make any
commission from him or anything he's
just a dear friend who I know is a
Savage of what he does all right next
question I love it I love it next
question was uh just paying it forward
what you're what you and Craig
Valentine's content is done is uh
turning my life around it would be great
having him again on your podcast yeah
you know what when Craig when Craig
leaves Mexico and come did you know that
Craig left
Stratford Canada during the pandemic
bypassed the United States went to
Cancun and uh he's been there ever since
he and his wife he's at still yeah he
and his wife and his beautiful daughter
and now they've got a a little another
baby girl on the way nice and uh so
he'll be just like you'll have two
daughters and uh but yeah they live in
Cancun so whenever he comes out here
Craig Valentine whenever you come out
here I will put you on the show buddy
because you and I can rant for days and
I got a crazy story about Craig in Miami
where let me let me tell you like he met
this chick she was a 11 out of 10. and
one thing led to another and they ended
up in a room together and that's all I
can say about that until I see Craig
next and then I'll go into great details
let him tell it there we go awesome man
uh Dennis asks what advice slash tips do
you have for someone that wants to do
public speaking and improve how I speak
well we kind of touched on that before
what helped you how are you before got
it okay so you know what um I know
Botticelli asked that same question also
all of you who want to become better
public speakers study good public
speakers right um like there's a whole
bunch of them out there Ed mylette Tony
Robbins uh Tom bilyu comes to mind
um uh Eric Thomas is a fantastic public
speaker and it's like study how they're
speaking what they're saying are they
storytelling and then go buy this course
from Joel Weldon he's a million years
old he's got thick leathery skin
God bless him I used to I I've gotten
coached by him Joel Weldon he's in the
speaker Hall of Fame man he's done over
3 000 paid speaking events like that's
[ __ ] gangster [ __ ] and he's got a
course
um so Joe Weldon go by his course just
Google his name don't ask me for his
website fio figure it out uh he'll teach
you how to become an even better
presenter also and then another thing
too man uh what helped me to become a
better public speaker was Patrick but
David good friend of you yes he has a
video if you just type in on YouTube uh
valuetainment how to become a better
public speaker or something it'll come
up but um he basically touches on what
you talked about where he breaks down
different great public speakers and
their style you find your style and then
you can study that way so anyways shout
out to Pat David yes sir all right next
question JC says I have friends who I
believe uh could benefit from your
content unfortunately I don't think
they're ready to hear it or may reject
it what shall I or can I do thanks for
all that you do first of all JC thank
you so much man and by the way guys
everybody here in the tribe and the
whole BK tribe listen I believe that we
all have the duty and an obligation to
pay a message like this forward like
when I this is why I'm shouting out and
saying like go use Robbie Blanchard's
product like when I find something
that's solid it's helped me it's
transformed my life whether it's Robbie
Blanchard Joe Weldon Pat but David
whoever I'm gonna shout it out and so if
you guys are fans of what I do if you
guys are living This Life share it share
it on social media instead of sending it
directly to them share it on social
media but the even bigger thing you can
do other than sharing my content is to
live the role model life like live the
virtues and the core values of this
podcast of this show and when you do
people are going to take notice and like
bro you just carry yourself differently
you're stoic you're more jacked than
ever like I can just tell you have the
juice what is it that you do once they
asked that question then you might go
hey man here's what I do and oh by the
way here's two or three episodes of this
you know beautifully handsome hairy man
that you might want to listen to that
would be me right and so but until then
just live a role model life and people
will be like you know what man
um I want some of that how do I get it
versus versus always trying to like push
it down the throat you and I had this
conversation when we're in Orlando like
you could either go around trying to
push religion down someone's throat or
you can live a life where someone goes
man I can tell you live a very peaceful
life you have peace in your heart right
tell me more and you're like let me
introduce you to Jesus right and that's
how that dialogue became so see that we
already translated Jesus into Spanish
yes right exactly Jesus all right onward
here we go Story Time Rod asks uh or he
says BK thank you for sharing your time
I'm 29 and in the military I recently
started copywriting as a side hustle I
love it I work 12 hours a day but
freelance when I can other than cold
emailing how can I get bigger clients
uh well the way you get bigger clients
is you have to build a reputation word
of mouth and so get so good at what you
do that the little guy tells the medium
guy the medium guy tells the bigger guy
and the bigger guy tells his fellow
bigger friends like that's like we all
we're all connected we all know each
other right and then if you really want
to Fast Track that find the person that
you want to maybe work for or work with
and literally reach out and say hey can
I write some emails for you for free
like do it for free because if you're
willing if your product is that good
your email copy is that good that is
going to get better conversions than
what they're using now
when you do it for free
even just for that guy
they are going to
take notice and offer you money and
start referring you to their peers
and so it's a no-brainer that you're
going to put in some free work to get
long-term payout but only if your shit's
good if not then they're just going to
be like take a hike and they're going to
tell everyone else don't use this person
for sure yeah opposite effects right uh
how you say this reuke ryuk x uh Bro
you've got the harder job here I I dude
I'm trying to yeah exactly like trying
to you have to not only like translate
names from like I don't know like
Ukrainian to like English and then you
have to like translate the message to me
yeah exactly and then I just have to
like either I know the answer or I don't
yeah tough job but you know someone's
got to do it from your past vids you
diverted
you diverted PTSD you diverted Pizza
let's just read it let's see if we can
translate this for your past vids you
diverted PTSD I have PTSD and it holds
me back at times when you have PTSD
symptoms or thoughts what internal
techniques do you uh use to defeat
eliminate them and achieve your goals in
life so problem PTSD yeah yeah all right
so I don't know man this is a lot of
PTSD right and there's there's
there is uh
yeah there's a lot of PTSD that I've
talked about here like a lot of things
that have happened to me you know I've
talked about being sexually molested
that certainly created PTSD coming out
here to the United States being a
foreigner not speaking the language uh
being beat up by F Troop the gangs in
Santa Ana one of the most violent gangs
out there
um created a lot of PTSD like beat up
and like threatened Etc and there was
some other stuff that I haven't talked
about that's really [ __ ] me up but uh
one a good therapist will give you tools
so go see a therapist and if you're a
dude go see a male therapist and make
sure he's over the age of 45 so he has
some experience and just pour it all out
there man I'm being honest with you pour
it all out there a good therapist will
give you outside eyes and Coach you and
guide you on things that you just can't
solve yourself number two if you go to
Instagram right after this you'll see
that the post that I put up yesterday uh
last night I don't normally post at
night but around 9pm last night I put up
a post on my timeline
uh it's just me sitting in the gym
um I had a Savage workout at the end my
finisher was just like I abused myself
and I was talking to myself and I was
just like get to a place where your
higher self consciousness can talk to
your human animal the human animal
version of us is the one that
experiences PTSD PTSD is trauma so you
go into your trauma body and you start
hyperventilating and you have an anxiety
attack because you are reliving whatever
trauma had caused you like your body's
experiencing all the same symptoms the
human animal can experience that
consciousness
won't your higher self can literally
have a conversation the reason I say go
read that post from yesterday because I
talked about I was just having some
rough times recently and I just put
myself through a really tough workout
that's when I feel I get bilateral
stimulation get both sides of the brain
working I'm mumbling to myself and
talking to myself it was the higher self
coaching the human animal and really
purging all of the emotions and thoughts
and feelings that don't serve me anymore
and if you can learn to separate
Consciousness from Human Animal your
higher self from your human animal self
then your higher self can coach
the human animal that's having PTSD but
until you get there that's a high place
of self-realization self-actualization
self-mastery until you get there go work
with the therapist and say hey man
here's what I'm experiencing and be
honest with it and a good therapist will
help you start coping with it within a
couple of months it ain't it ain't
rocket science I want to ask you on that
note
um and I'm not going to name the person
who that we know who went through this
but do you recommend any outside
for example doing drugs to help solve it
right because the reason I ask is
because of that story the person was
telling us to the Ayahuasca to try and
help with that yeah but then also I saw
Mike Rasheed and Mike Tyson on a podcast
couple weeks ago and Mike was talking
Mike Tyson was talking about how uh he
had done the same thing and it was just
a crazy experience and he asked Mike
Rashid if you ever do it Mike Rasheed
said he wouldn't for his own reasons and
you guys kind of share a similar yeah me
and Mike Rasheed would not touch it on
the same thing but it's not enough so I
just know that I would go wacko I would
I would end up like chewing off my own
arm or something like I would be like
the monkey in a cage to chews off his
own arms nobody needs me to have one arm
yeah I mean but but I get it um so so
that's a good question and we we have uh
so I've got a few coaching clients that
I coach who are former Special
Operations uh and then we've got a
mutual friend who's who's former Special
Operations and he recently went to
Mexico and did that one thing where it's
basically like I think some I don't know
if it's mushrooms or DMT or combination
of all that but absolutely in an
environment that's designed to help you
kind of tap into your trauma and then
help you
get unstuck
if there's Ayahuasca or some other
medicinal
way of getting there I don't believe
there's only one way to skin that cat
sure like for me because Mike Rasheed
and I are very we're control freaks so
like I need my senses completely under
control and so I'd rather go work with a
therapist and just spill my guts and
[ __ ] cry and yell and scream and then
and then have some aha moments and
epiphanies and then walk away from it
right like okay I figured myself out
but you might be like hey I don't want
to do that that might be as cringy for
you as you know drinking Ayahuasca and
throwing up all over myself and
hallucinating that you know the Devil
Himself is coming to take me away at
which point I start chewing off my own
arm for right for for a sense of comfort
so what works for and look there's many
mechanisms the real solution here is to
lean into a mechanism that is going to
help you to sit there and constantly
live in stress anxiety overwhelm
depression uh PTSD like what a wasted
life sure that's a wasted life here we
go we've got a super chat from goni they
ask what are your best tips for
maintaining Pace when you're working
like a Savage
oh man routine and structure uh did we
put out the routine rules and ritual
episode okay so I think maybe two
episodes ago we put out a uh an episode
uh for how to really build out your life
structure to to just treat yourself like
a [ __ ] high performing fighter jet
and so it's all about your routines your
rituals and your personal rules uh I
live by them seven days a week and that
keeps me from burning out getting
overwhelmed uh keeps me from saying yes
to stupid ideas uh so that I could say
yes to the one or two big ideas that are
really going to move the money and the
meaning needle for me because I thrive
off money and meaning like I I use my
money as a weapon to do a lot of good
with it and I require a lot of meaning a
lot of fulfillment to be happy uh like I
know how I how I operate so those two
things are important for me so go watch
that episode friend here we go original
L we got a super chat from him he says
uh what would you do if you had twenty
thousand dollars at 16. yeah
[ __ ] it's 16 to five twenty thousand
dollars I wouldn't have bought used
technique 1200s and a crown app I would
have bought brand new technique 1200s
and a crown app do they still have crown
app said what is that no for the people
yeah I don't know what that is so
technology no those are the baddest
[ __ ] turntables
so those are the baddest turntables on
the planet uh before things turn to a
[ __ ] iMac or iPad or how the [ __ ]
people play music today uh but technique
1200s I would have bought brand new
technique 1200s
um I wouldn't have bought used speakers
that's for sure uh and of course I would
have bought like top of the line Crown
amps and [ __ ] and a whole rig so yeah
I'd spend about 20 grand so that's what
I would have done back then at 16. uh
now what I tell my son what my son's
been doing when he gets money makes
money or wins money from me when we play
ping pong is he invests it in things
like Ping Pong or uh Bitcoin and
ethereum because
now he's 17. he's got such longevity
ahead of him like he can go through four
or five more
Bitcoin crypto crashes and he'll be just
fine right right and so but I've
educated him on how to grow wealth I
didn't know how to grow wealth so the 16
year old version of me with 20 grand
would either buy you know turntables or
look at Maine DJ Gizmo Main in the
comments yes yeah I was DJ Gizmo all
right there there we go it's out DJ
Gizmo so I wasn't gonna say it but there
it is [ __ ] Mane All right so anyways
um I lost my train of thought or I would
have I would have bought bought weed
this is a story I should probably tell I
would have bought a [ __ ] ton of weed cut
it with uh parsley and then sold it I I
regret saying that I should not have
done that uh that's I would buy a little
bit of wheat because that's all I could
afford and then I would cut it with
parsley and I would sell it and make
double my money back but that's the old
meaning of the new me there it goes yeah
I heard about people were doing that in
junior high man they're like and they'd
figure out way after the fact like you
do you sold me a bag of oregano what is
this put it on your pizza yeah exactly
stop crying all right so we got about um
first of all I want to say thanks guys
for anybody who donated we appreciate it
we have about six questions left I feel
like that might be uh the questions that
take us to the end uh so I want to say
thank you for that we'll keep going so
Kaylee asks I'm the breadwinner company
just did layoffs this uncertainty is
scary what mindset can I develop now
while I have well I have to find a new
job I have a child and bills and now I'm
in a Lim I'm in limbo land yeah yeah all
right so first off I'm sorry that you
got laid off we are going into some
really uncertain times I just heard
Robert Kiyosaki say a few days ago at an
event and if you don't know who Robert
Kiyosaki is he's Rich Dad Poor Dad he
wrote the book Rich Dad Poor Dad great
book uh he said you know the the
stock market is going to continue to
crash interest rates are going to
continue to go up inflation is already
up so look how many ways you're taking
your money through inflation everything
costs more and then interest rates are
going up again the feds just put that
out there uh yesterday I believe uh the
interest rates are going to go up
another half a tick a quarter of a tick
and so that means they're going to take
more money out of your pocket that way
and then here of course the stock
markets begin to crash then comes the
housing market then comes
the dollar begins to crash so we are on
one hell of a 24 month maybe 36 month
wild roller coaster but what this young
woman could do I think it was a woman
right who left that said I'm sorry I
went down to the next one uh Kaylee so I
believe so there's no use no picture but
I think anyway male female it doesn't
matter whatever flag you fly at these
days we don't know we deduced on a
previous episode there's 19 different
flags out there these days anyway so off
you go but um first off I'm sorry that
you are in that position it's scary the
thing you can do is as my dear friend
Jason Redman says he's a former Navy
SEAL get off the X like sitting there in
fear and doubt and uncertainty is only
going to make your problem worse as you
begin to hand ring and run out of money
so go find whatever job you can right
now but beyond that ask yourself what
value can I create remember Leighton
just talked about this family that has a
couple of crazy wild kids they set up
some camera has started to film their
crazy family Antics they built a
multi-million following YouTube channel
and they're making an obscene amount of
money from it and your your kids are
watching it right four million
subscribers yeah four million
subscribers man that's insane can I get
some of those subscribers over here [ __ ]
man by the way hey I just want to let
everyone know we are at 399 000
subscribers currently
thank you guys we're at 400 000
subscribers I don't really know what the
[ __ ] that means because nothing in my
life changes so officially this project
we get to help more people and I am on a
mission to get to a million subscribers
before the year is up uh because I am
very very competitive and I'm very
outcome focused so to be able to help a
million people with my show uh every
Tuesday when we put out an episode would
be awesome but in the meantime young
lady find a way to tighten the belt
number one like if if there's an expense
that you don't need cut it uh number two
find a way to create multiple income
streams so maybe you might get a job
right now that's not paying you the same
amount of money that you were making
that's okay find a way to make some kind
of a side hustle like is there things
that you could sell on eBay for other
people and be the middle man to to be
able to take a percentage from right
like Consignment is what that's called
is there can you can you get into some
kind of financial services like um World
Financial Group and and selling
Financial Services like there's so many
things you can do I talked about Rob
Robbie Blanchard here like go follow
Robbie Blanchard on Instagram uh get his
course and apply his course and you'll
you'll start making more money for
yourself and take care of your family
but the one thing we can't do is we
can't just sit on the X as Jason Redman
says because that is where we become the
bullseye for all types of attacks mental
attacks emotional attacks Financial
attacks so we have to keep moving
towards an outcome no matter what and
while we are going towards some pretty
shitty times in terms of a world economy
we're all in it together we have to do
better in speaking out against the
current opposition the government who is
bloated and is working on their behalf
and not our behalf and remember your
it's your government it's our government
they should be working on our behalf
they need to be much smaller and looking
after us I don't know why we're sending
billions of dollars to Ukraine when
there's a train that's toppled over
that's poisoning the waters out there in
in
Ohio and and when there's people out
here that might need the money and the
Financial Security but understand that
you have more control than you think if
you choose to get off the X and lean
into some kind of action here we go
all right next question uh on the topic
of of money and finances EG 710 ask is
Roth IRA a good investing tool for nine
to five thank you
it's better than a poke in the eye man a
Roth IRA is better than a poke in the
eye if you are working for someone and
if they are matching what you're
contributing to that Roth IRA
um
hey even better right that means the
company's contributing equally or half
of what you're putting in even better
but you ought to also figure out what
kind of gig you can do on you know I
always call it a Friday night gig what
can you do Friday nights Saturdays and
Sundays to be able to create a secondary
income stream that might bring in an
additional three four five thousand
dollars a month
it doesn't take that many Fridays
Saturdays and Sundays to be able to
create an income stream that's a
secondary income stream that then allows
you to take more time off but you got to
be willing to work seven days a week for
a few months to be able to curate that
secondary income stream to build that
new skill so that you can God forbid you
get fired from this job or if you just
want to have the secondary income stream
that's passive or near passive what I
wouldn't do is go get a second secondary
income stream of driving Lyft or Uber
like if you're trading time for dollars
as your first gig don't go creating a
second gig where you're trading time for
dollars like your second third fourth
gig should be something that's online
that's scalable that doesn't require you
to trade your time for dollars and so if
you guys again like keep going back to
Robbie Blanchard you would think he
needs to [ __ ] sponsor the show or
something but don't Robbie because I
don't take sponsors I'll just talk about
your stuff for free because you're an
awesome cat
um but there's a great thing that you
can do nights and weekends and make
more than what you are making in your
career over time by developing the skill
of being a great affiliate marketer it
is
right Zachary uh gross asked if you had
to pick one to prioritize number one
product idea uh
Automotive equations okay number one
product idea then it says Automotive
accessory kind of confused on that two
service so estimating for roofing
contractors or three real estate already
have one duplex what would you
prioritize out of the three
uh I would say one service
and then two real estate
okay I wouldn't go into the Product
Industry right now not with the where
the economy is going but service you can
scale because if you're going around
giving estimates for roofers you can
hire five other people and teach them to
do the same and now you're getting paid
let's say you're taking 10 of the money
they may they make they got five people
out there doing estimates right so like
a you know a service like that is
scalable where you can make money by
deploying other people out there to do
the work for you and then of course real
estate as long as well you know me and
Tony Stefan we buy real estate together
Apartments we're seeing Apartments now
going down in price and if you're in a
position to be able to buy a single
family home or duplex or a small
apartment complex maybe pulling money in
together with a group of people which is
called The Syndicate consider doing that
and and doing a real estate deal as well
lots of value in that nice e-fitness uh
send the Super Chat asks how did you
separate yourself from other
competitives in the already competitive
Fitness industry
I just kept being better I just kept
being better I kept asking myself how
can I do this better how can I do this
better like I knew when I was going to
launch this bedrose cooling show that I
wanted the set to be very specific I
wanted everything to be very specific
the wall I wanted to you know the behind
us I wanted to stand out in a way that
no other wall would stand out the
signage with the neon lights the topic I
knew it was going to be not me
interviewing others but me looking down
the barrel of the camera talking to the
audience talking to the people that I
want to serve talking to the people that
I want to help because I look at every
single all 400 000 subscribers now as
though you're my son or you're my
daughter I'm 48 years old now I am at a
place where I could probably be your dad
or your uncle and so how would I speak
to Andrew or Chloe if I'm trying to
coach them up through life is how I want
to speak to you and so I knew that if I
could just put my best content out there
on the best set with the best
microphones with the best crew with the
best cameras and I can be consistent
that it would blow up in in what 12 13
episodes this we just started to hockey
stick and blew up it didn't take long
and so I did the same thing in the
fitness industry I knew that
every industry is congested but there's
at the very top there's a lot of room
for the best there's always room at the
top for the best it's not congested at
the top and it doesn't take you don't
have to be 10 times better to make it to
the top like you could just be one or
two percent better than the next guy and
you've made it to the top and so I kept
asking myself could I guarantee results
to my clients can I guarantee results of
your money back could I can I give them
a service that they couldn't get from
someone else in terms of how I show up
uh how clean I am how I smell I care I
cared about everything everything like
if I'm going from client to client to
client I'm probably going to get sweaty
can I have four or five different polo
shirts in my car because before working
in the gym I would go to people's homes
man and train them in their homes with
dumbbells and [ __ ] you're going up
flights of stairs you're sweating like I
had a whole like
wardrobe set in my truck at the time
because I wanted to show up in a
different way can I Inspire them
motivate them keep them accountable in a
way that no other person can and so if
you are striving to constantly get
better give your clients better results
if you can guarantee results you can
remove that risk if you can communicate
better you can be more charismatic you
can make them feel awesome about
themselves you can help build their
self-esteem and self-worth and their
confidence while you help them get fit
and lose fat and build muscle you have
now stood out above them and so not only
are you
making more money but you could actually
charge more and now you have like this
line of clients waiting to pay you when
you have a line of people waiting to do
business with you
um you can charge whatever you want at
that point yeah people will pay love it
man
Drew sends a Super Chat uh do you think
that mandatory military service will fix
this masculinity crisis today shared
suffering is the best way to build bonds
and it's lacking yeah I agree
um I agree and and I believe we should
have mandatory military service just so
people can
leave this country and go tour other
countries and see how lucky they are to
be a U.S citizen
they should have someone yelling at them
and
screaming at them like a drill
instructor they should have routine and
structure impressed upon them by someone
because your mom and dad are going to be
okay with you having Cheeto dust on your
fingertips hanging out in your bedroom
playing Call of Duty and yelling in your
[ __ ] headset as though you were a a
tough guy go out there and actually do
it be it explore the world and see how
great this country is and when you do
you come back you have a lot more love
and patriotism and you're tougher and
when you're tougher you know that the
economy like in every one of our Lives
if you're if you're anywhere in your 20s
or 30s we're gonna you're gonna have at
least another three or four major
economic crashes like this that's coming
around the corner here in your life if
each time you're going to be playing
Chicken Little like the sky is falling
what should I do well if you dealt with
enough adversity in your life you would
just be like all right let's go I know
what I need to do I'm not going to sit
on the X I'm going to figure out how to
add value I'm going to find people and
build a tribe and not be alone wolf I'm
going to do whatever it takes and work
around the clock if I I have to because
I have work ethic for days and I'm just
not going to die until I die but people
just lay down and are ready to give up
so quickly and so my argument to that is
like if you can go into the military and
so if we had mandatory military service
there's massive benefits to it but then
when you have a leader like Joe Biden
and I hesitate to call him a leader like
who wants to go and fight his Wars his
battles who wants to call him
their commander-in-chief you know I
don't I don't and so we don't have
mandatory military what you do have
though is Free Will can you go out there
and do hard [ __ ] can you do the project
can you go run a marathon uh can you can
you do a Spartan Race you know what have
you picked a 90-day window and did five
Spartan races right what if you did five
Spartan races and then ended it with the
project like there are plenty of things
you can do as a regular civilian that
would show you great
adversity and suffering to help build
you mentally and emotionally but
we all lean
into comfort and convenience so much
that
it's like well the idea of doing a
Spartan Race is fun but [ __ ] man I don't
know I'd rather just listen to betroest
talk and feel motivated and then when he
done he's done with this thing and signs
off I'll just go to Instagram and
you know scroll some more and go to you
porn jack off call it a night like if
that's how your [ __ ] day is going to
end like just unsubscribe I'd rather
have three followers who are [ __ ]
Savages than 400 000 who
who are just waiting to get inspired and
motivated by me like [ __ ] that man get
disciplined by yourself
um
because man I love it uh last two
questions guys so Paul Alvarez asks
there's a sobering quote uh panels that
uh correctly there's a sobering quote by
an author named Michael Hoff Hard Times
create strong men strong men create good
times good times create weak men and
weak men create hard times you talk a
lot about that so there it is man that
was the question but throw it out there
I like it yeah uh last question uh by
fast I think big donation donated 50
bucks thank you for that thank you
brother says hey bejos I've been
practicing kickboxing for four years
it's my obsession it changed my life in
many ways and I want to help others as
well but I'm not sure how I go about
this business business-wise especially
online what would be your advice
oh man I would literally go on to
YouTube right now and be like look for
the best martial arts instructional
videos and whoever's got the biggest
Channel probably has a link in their
description box to a product or a course
click that and then see how they're
marketing their product or course is it
through live coaching and training is it
through a six or twelve week follow
along instructional video like you can
reverse engineer someone's product and
just apply it to your product and then
use chat GPT to to write your sales copy
like they have and you can maybe go get
kajabi and put all your
content in your videos your how-to
videos for your kickboxing on there dude
there's so many things you can do like
step number one is go who has a martial
arts
training or coaching program that's
doing well on YouTube if it's doing well
on YouTube click the link in the
description box because odds are it's
probably doing well in sales as well
they're they're paid for course and then
deconstruct their model and then create
your own version of it don't plagiarize
them but model success create your own
version of it and that's the fastest way
to get there or if you got 100 G's pay
me 100 Grand and I'll coach you through
it but I I don't help people with Coach
with courses so I jest but if you've got
a business that's doing 250 000 a year
or more you want to break seven figures
eight figures and Beyond that's when you
get coaching with me there we go there
we go so that was the last question guys
thank you so much and I waited till the
end to bring this one up it wasn't a
super chat but I saw when I was
scrolling through it to get to the next
Super Chat someone asks what do you get
out of this you coming on here and
giving free game and kicking all this
knowledge and your wisdom and everything
I'm unless you touch on it but I want to
say that
um dude he's just such an awesome guy
man you know this is my time to kind of
brag about you a little bit you guys are
obviously at least a lot of you guys is
really familiar with the book by Robert
Kiyosaki Rich Dad Poor Dad this is my
Rick's dad right here man I'm forever
indebted to this man because he's taught
me so much continues to put me on game
put me in uh positions where I can grow
and learn and become a better leader and
he doesn't just do this for me he does
it for everybody in HQ here at our
headquarters he does it for everybody
comes in contact with and everything so
I'm really grateful for that and so uh
I'm not answering the question for you
because I know you have your own version
of what you want to say but um I mean he
just does it just because he he really
wants to help and he cares man uh so
first off thank you for that and those
of you that don't know I think we've
talked about this before I've Leighton
and I have known each other since you
were about 10 years old or so and I've
just had the Good Fortune to see
Leighton and grow up to be this amazing
man father husband and uh hell Ed how
long have you and I been working
together
five years now and Ed is like Benjamin
Button he just keeps getting leaner more
jacked and is married to my the VP of my
coaching company Joan Jones been with me
almost 10 years she's she was my
assistant and now she's I guess kind of
my everything like like that's
everything but um she runs my coaching
company and Ed is married to Joan and
when Ed came in here man
um awesome videographer awesome DJ but
just to see him
just embrace the culture here and then
started taking his Fitness serious and
his mindset serious just a whole new
dude and then Andrew like you've been
with us now you were first with Fit Body
with one of my companies and now you're
working as part of the marketing company
and part of the BK brand how long have
you been with us
six months with this how long with Fit
Body
a year so a year and six months and to
see you transforming uh as an example of
like proximity is powerful right and
it's not even me anymore because I just
hide out in my office doing work you
guys have created like each and every
one of you have taken this ethos that we
have here and when a new person comes in
it just it's contagious now you just
infect each other with awesomeness but
what do I get out of this show for doing
it for free well I said earlier I'm into
making money and I'm into meaning like
if I just made money I would probably
be a depressed and self-sabotaging
individual and I'd find a way to
sabotage myself with a lot of money
you'd find me overdosed on some [ __ ]
drug so money alone does not make me
happy I need money I need meaning as
well and so the meaning to me is to be
able to give back uh you know I I tell
you how I'm going to double all this
money from the super chats and give it
to Shriners children's hospital and if
you've been following me for any length
of time you know that we give money
every year to Shriners Children's
Hospital we buy toys for tens of
thousands of kids every Christmas out
here for Toys for Tots and then I've got
97 kids adopted through Compassion
International and I don't talk about
this stuff often because I don't want to
beat my chest but if you notice it's all
kid based child-based Charities why I'm
healing the inner child right like my
inner child I've been molested as a kid
I've seen some [ __ ]
bad [ __ ] I've I've
stopped someone from killing themselves
literally pulled a gun out of a family
member's hand from killing himself uh
and and I literally see that every every
night and so to heal that little dude I
uh do this kind of stuff because it
gives me meaning I give to Charities
that are kid based because it gives me
meaning and I love money because I want
freedom and sovereignty and I wanna
be generous with my money and so I've
created companies like truly you know
probably the healthiest you know
supplement company out there in Fit Body
Boot Camp the most awesome Fitness
franchise although being the founder I
probably have a
biased View and I think I'm a pretty
solid business coach I mean you look at
all my coaching clients from NFL to
Major League to Special Operations
Community to Medical Doctors and [ __ ]
scientists like who the [ __ ] am I some
immigrant to to be able to teach like
the world's best uh entrepreneurship but
uh I I'm just blessed so what do I get
with this YouTube show I get a lot of
meaning I get to promote and Market my
products uh to you my products not other
people's products which is I why I'll
never have ads on here and so it's also
a place where
I get to Mentor my son and daughter in
the future like when Andrew and Chloe
like I don't know I've thought about
this like I feel weird talking about
this right now because I feel like I'm
gonna break down and cry but I don't
know how long I'm gonna live bro like I
I always say I'm gonna live to be 100
years old I really believe I'm going to
live to be 100 years old it's going to
be a Sunday I'm going to have trained
legs I'm gonna go into my car and I'm
gonna die in my car my wife's gonna find
me dead in my car after a leg day I just
in my head that's how it is like 100
years old I trained legs I don't know
what a leg workout will look like when
you're 100 but we'll figure it out when
we get there but God forbid I somehow
you know you know exit this world sooner
to
to this point now we've got whatever 23
24 episodes where Andrew and Chloe and
their kids can can can get mentoring
from me can can learn from me yes I
Mentor them and Coach them in person but
there's stuff on here that is good for
them when they're in their 20s and 30s
and 40s that they can come back to Dad's
message like we never lived in a time
like you know my dad now he can barely
remember things he's in his 80s
I wasn't smart enough in my when I was
in my teens and 20s to ask him the
important stuff for him to pass along
information to me so now I'm kind of
documenting all of my what I think is
the best of my life lessons here on
YouTube while helping you helping my
children in the future and so I get a
lot out of this and uh I'm really
grateful that you guys listen give me an
ear so that I'm not just talking into an
empty mic but I got three friends in
this room that I get to connect with and
um A [ __ ] massive audience that
continues to grow and for that I am
eternally grateful for uh so with that
said let's wrap this one up and we'll
see you guys next month on alive and
next Tuesday 8 A.M Pacific for the next
show drop here we go man excited man
thanks for having me on beer appreciate
you thank you
good
nice
man they donated some money huh yeah for
sure I don't