three two one and we are live Leighton
what's happening man what's going on man
I'm great thank you all right ready to
go well guys welcome to another live
YouTube show uh we like to do this
periodically and I'm gonna tell you how
the flavor of these lives go I use it as
an opportunity to coach you up it's an
opportunity to coach you up uh
leighton's got a couple questions that
he's gonna fire off let me just uh turn
down the volume here there we go Layton
um leighton's got a question a couple of
questions he's going to fire off
of course I'm here to answer all of your
questions is there many of your
questions as we can during this live and
uh we also got a big announcement that
we're going to announce in a few minutes
but before we do I also want to let you
know the beautiful thing about these
lives are if you want to put your
question ahead of everyone else uh
you're going to use the Super Chat
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100 of it
I match and then I donate your money
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money that I'm matching to Shriners
Children's Hospital which is a hospital
uh actually 22 Hospitals now across the
world that deliver medical services for
kids whose families can't afford these
medical services so forever as long as
I'm doing these YouTube lives we're
going to be donating money from the
super chats to Shriners Children's
Hospital not a penny if it goes into my
pocket and we do this because again we
want to serve you we want to be able to
answer your questions and we also want
to be able to help a charity and a cause
that I've been donating to now and we've
donated actually several million dollars
over the last 12 years to Shriners so
with that said Leighton let's uh kick it
off while we're waiting the questions to
load up here in the chat box let's kick
it off with the first question most
definitely first of all I want to say
it's awesome to see people just coming
in man and supporting it and shouting
out where they're from and saw someone
from Australia South Africa I saw Canada
somewhere in there so it's super cool to
see everybody tuning in from over it's
awesome first question Timothy Cortez
asks he says what motivated or inspired
you to pursue your chosen path your big
quote unquote why and is it the same now
yeah so actually it is the same now I've
always been allergic to being told what
to do I've had I've had three jobs
and I've got fired from all three of
them and it wasn't because I wasn't a
good employee it's because I questioned
why are we doing things this way here's
a better way to do it and all the jobs
whether I was a bouncer at that gay bar
that I worked at Disneyland or the bagel
store that I worked at I got fired from
all of them because I questioned why
we're doing things this way here's I
came up with better ways that I thought
were more effective in doing things and
then beyond that dude I couldn't figure
out like
why
a human can tell another human that you
get a 15 minute break every three hours
or four hours and then you get a 30
minute break every six hours and I'm
like that's I don't like that I don't
like being told what to do and seems
like all the jobs I had like if I was a
minute late
I would get reprimanded written up and I
realized very quickly I don't like being
controlled I don't like being told what
to do I don't like someone kind of
threatening Financial loss over my head
and so I figured all right this might be
a sign that I need to become My Own Boss
because I clearly can't work for a boss
and so I said I'd rather take the risk
of being an entrepreneur beating my own
path potentially starving for a long
time not making ends meet but if I can
just break through then I become my own
man sovereignty right which is what we
talk about on the show a lot and so I'm
so allergic to being told what to do by
others
um I am my friend Mike Rasheed says it
best he says I'm an Outlaw he calls
himself an outlaw and I know typically
Outlaws are known like in the wild west
as bad guys but Outlaws are also people
that live outside the laws that Society
has created to get people to conform and
comply and so I'm definitely an outline
that way and I and I live that way
because uh it's got to be on my own
terms yeah and that's my big reason why
even now I fear
not having enough money not having
enough financial access to be able to
help the Charities and causes that I
want to be able to help the schools that
I want when my kids school loving savior
needed a big giant canopy uh we we
pawned up ninety thousand dollars and we
paid for it because it's not a public
school it's a private school the parents
didn't have enough money to kick in hey
no worries we'll kick in the 90 000
needed put up a giant canopy over the
playground and the basketball courts
volleyball courts uh and to me that is
like the ultimate freedom to be able to
do what I want yeah exactly yeah that's
my big reason why still there we go so
two-part question on that uh number one
do you feel like you're is a part of
your personality type if someone says
that you need to do something you need
to go a certain way that you do the
opposite just to you know go against
what they're saying bro to a detriment
okay like even if I know that's the
right path yeah like because you told me
to do it no I'm not I'm gonna kick my
feet in okay and I hate that about
myself but I just have to [ __ ] dig my
feet in put yourself aware and I asked
that question because maybe there's
someone watching this and they're like
I'm just like that too like I I relate
so do you think that that type of person
should probably go into entrepreneurship
or does it just depends on the situation
yeah well I mean I think that's that's
one variable that you might want to
consider to go into entrepreneurship
another variable might be if you have
this need to make a lot of money like I
do to be able to help out Charities
churches schools uh families whatever
right like I always feel like I need to
be the one to do the thing
um it starts and stops with me I'll
never be the guy to cross my arms and
look at a problem and go someone should
do something about that right I'm that
someone I've put that burden on myself
therefore I must be an entrepreneur and
make an obscene amount of money to be
able to help and support right love it
man all right let me get these two super
chats real quick I have a couple more
questions from people asked from Twitter
and Instagram let's get to these first
so
um Zach Hess says uh I'm a Shriner so a
personal thank you to a person thank you
to you for what you do for the kids
please explain why men need a
Brotherhood and women need a Sisterhood
yes uh first of all Zach thank you for
the donation on that Super Chat and of
course man you're a Shriner um I'm
getting Goosebumps because when I go to
speaking events
um there's always you know word has
gotten out now that I support Shriners
over over 12 years and
there's always someone in a big audience
that will bring their Shriner's blanket
and give it to me because Shriners gives
every child the blanket so Zach uh shout
out to you man and so why do men need a
Brotherhood and CIS and women need a
Sisterhood simple as this you go back to
prehistoric times
when we were cavemen
and you look at the caveman he goes man
I am hungry
and my wife and my little baby here need
food
I need to kill the saber-toothed tiger
shoot I can't I can't kill that giant
saber-toothed tiger with just me and my
spear but what I can do is recruit other
dudes from My Tribe and we can come up
with a plan where the two of you
distract the saber-toothed tiger the
other three of you have a giant net
ready on a you know waiting off a tree
canopy and the other four of us are just
gonna run and spear this [ __ ] and so
it's going to take a tribe of men to
take the saber-toothed tiger down so
that we could all eat yeah and then it's
going to take a tribe of men
to fight off the enemy from the other
tribe from the other side of the
mountain when they want to come and take
our our you know supplies right and it's
always been that way you and then you go
come more recent Biblical times
Jesus didn't just cruise around on his
own
he had his disciples right he had his
disciples they were his Messengers and
yeah one of his disciples did betray him
but Jesus didn't just cruise around on
his own like we need a tribe no one man
is an island we are not lone wolves we
are actually
designed to be tribal to be in the
community to to become to be Predators
when we hunt and to be protectors uh
when we want to save as a group it's not
a SWAT person it's a SWAT team it's not
a seal it's a sealed team that goes and
kills Osama Bin Laden because
two three four five men collectively can
solve much bigger problems together can
be there for one another
and can support each other and then in
the most recent times Jack Donovan in
his book way of men which by the way all
of you should read my homies uh book
Jack Donovan way of men he talks about
how we've gained think about this like
there's gangs the military even in
prison they divide up into groups it's
just in our nature recent Society has
especially the since the pandemic it's
really sped up and accelerated but
recently they've uh the opposition man
big government big media
does everything they can to separate
people from one another because we are
strongest when we're a tribe when we're
a team when we're unified uh against the
opposition they don't want us to be
unified so they want to separate us in
every way through religion through
sexual orientation through gender
through skin color and so it is our job
to say [ __ ] you and stay unified same
with women women will always achieve
more when they have a Sisterhood to work
through problems with to to be able to
support one another it was a tribe of
women that helped the woman who's having
a baby give birth in a safe fashion I
mean you're otherwise screwed on your
own and so without that man there's the
emotional mental physical
um and a Brotherhood or a Sisterhood
fulfills that and without it we are lone
wolves and we are much more susceptible
to mental emotional disorders as well as
unfortunate things like you know
checking out exactly so what about the
person who is looking for their tribe
they understand everything you're saying
they need to find their group they feel
like they're that that lion that is
walking around kind of beat up has scars
he doesn't have his stride he got kicked
out or whatever the case is or maybe
it's a person that wants to level up
themselves and their group is kind of
walking around just kind of you know
sitting uh yeah
yeah what about those people like how do
they find their their tribe or their
group people do you try to level up the
people you're with currently where it's
like hey you guys got to do it for
yourself
um it's always best to try and help the
people around you level up right what do
they say they say the rising Tides raise
All Ships uh however if I keep trying I
keep trying I keep trying and they're
just like man I'm just gonna stay awake
late at night what binge watch TV smoke
weed eat shitty foods not work out in
the morning be haphazard it's like after
trying a certain amount of times I'm
done bro I'm done trying and now what
I'm gonna do is just focus on me and
then I'm gonna see if there are any
communities where people like me exist
so if I'm into running then I might find
a marathon locally I might find a
Spartan Race a mud run if I'm into
lifting weights I might go join a
CrossFit or a gym or a Fit Body Boot
Camp or whatever if I'm into playing
chess I'm very cerebral I might go find
a chess club or something there's so
many organizations bike riding clubs
like if I'm into comedy and just
expression I might go join a young
Comics new Comics Group an improv take
an improv class like I took a six week I
did a six week challenge in an improv
class in Santa Monica I met some awesome
humans man very different birds you know
and it was so neat meeting them and
experiencing them and and then realizing
that wow here I think I'm good at a lot
of things I do but they are really
talented in expressing themselves and I
wanted that skill set so
I say that because the groups exist you
have to actively seek them out
sign up for it introduce yourself hey my
name is Pedros and I'm a lion that's
walking around on my own right now but
I've identified you as similar lions
that have the same Battle Scars and the
same desires to level up
and I just want to know if I could join
the group and when you do that you feel
like holy crap now we're all Cut From
the Same Cloth like I always say like
this entire building is full of Misfits
like we're we're all weirdos that didn't
quite fit in but then when you come into
this building
like we want you to fly your freak flag
we want you your weirdness fits in with
all the other weirdos and all of a
sudden we're like oh man there's others
like me who are just really highly
driven that are very different in the
way they approach thing things most of
us are very introverted in this building
but we know how to turn on the extrovert
like right in this group in this
building we have our own tribe here we
go love it
um Alpha slice sends in a super chatty
says no question just sending you some
love and energy brother from another
immigrant you rock thank you brother
appreciate the donation man Shriners is
going to love that and I'm gonna match
it awesome uh and then free just the
word free okay I appreciate all that you
do I just graduated with my masters full
ride scholarship accomplishing goals
staying lean saving and investing
however I still feel behind at 30.
thoughts question mark thank you and
okay sounds like he's one of us in other
words type A tightly wound high speed
and so all my coaching clients a lot of
the team members in this building were
type A tightly wound high speed and the
type A tightly wound high-speed human is
always going to feel behind it's always
going to feel like there's more to do
it's always going to feel like they
didn't do enough I'm cut from that cloth
and I make an obscene amount of money
I've made a lot of impact in life I'm 48
years old I feel like I've got another
50 years ahead of me still and I feel
like I'm still behind there's more I
could be doing there's greater
challenges that I could do there's more
people I can Inspire there's more money
I can donate that is a good trait to
have but you have to understand that
you're cut from a certain cloth and it's
not you're never going to be satisfied
our friend Ed mylett calls that being
blissfully dissatisfied I'm happy with
where I am in life like reading what he
said you know full ride scholarship
accomplishing goals he's staying lean
he's saving money he's investing so he's
doing a lot of great things like exactly
he should be
he's Blissful but always dissatisfied
and that's because you're a type a
high-speed human that's going to do a
lot of good for Humanity but the
conundrum my friend that you're going to
deal with is that you're always going to
feel like you're not doing enough and
you're falling behind but really you're
miles ahead of everyone else around you
yeah that's a good thing it's a good
thing it's always going to say it's a
good thing to feel that yeah for sure uh
Robert I'm sorry brother I don't know
how to pronounce your last name but
Robert sends in a Super Chat he didn't
have a question or anything I just think
he just supporting the work so we
appreciate that thank you sir right on
thank you Robert and then we have a shot
of voc I apologize if I mispronounce
your name brother but he sends in a
Super Chat and he says can you tell me
more about your one-on-one coaching how
much time do you spend with them per
month per session
et cetera also how often do you eat per
day macros
Etc thank you for your hard work and
making this world a better place he
needs a game plan what's the game plan B
I shot first off thank you thank you for
the donation man I appreciate it
secondly uh tell tell you about my
one-on-one coaching program so it's the
domination your coaching program if you
go to bedroschooling.com you'll find it
there 12 months of working one-on-one
together getting you three to five years
of very focused results that's what the
domination year is we meet together in
person here at HQ for a half day
coaching session at month number one we
meet together again for a half day
coaching session in person one-on-one at
month number two upstairs in our war
room and then every month of the 12
months we do a one-on-one coaching call
30 minute one-on-one coaching call which
is all about action and accountability
so those one-on-one half day meetings
are all about game planning the next six
months to get 12 to 24 months of results
the monthly coaching calls are action
and accountability to help you support
you clear out the bottlenecks and
exploit the opportunities to help you
get to the goal that we planned during
your half day and so it is outcome
focused I'm not a woo-woo type of person
I want you to make more money I want you
to have higher profits I want you to
have time freedom I want you to build a
team I want you to build your leadership
muscles and that will create sovereignty
and that's what I teach if it's about I
want to feel better for myself and give
you a hundred thousand dollars I'm not
the coach for that there's other coaches
for that in terms of what do I eat in
terms of macros I fast until uh 12 noon
uh so I when I wake up I don't need
anything other than my my water I used
to have protein shakes in the morning
but lately I've started fasting in the
morning until 12 noon so I'll get my 9
A.M workout in and then after that it's
a 60 gram protein shake at 12 noon then
I'll have a chicken Caesar salad with
double chicken no croutons dressing on
the side and then I'll have another 40
gram protein shake and then when I get
home I'll have dinner that's typically
50 60 grams of protein and also gives me
about I don't know 75 to 100 grams of
carbs so I carb load at night which then
makes me strong in the morning since I'm
fasted that's what I found works for me
at 48 that's a different diet than I had
at 38. so I keep my carbs low I keep the
fat intake relatively High I'm probably
taking about 75 to 80 grams of fat a day
protein hovers around 200 to 225 grams a
day and it comes from two protein shakes
and two actual meals that's what works
for me and I do that when I travel and I
do that here at home and I also drink 30
ounces of water first thing in the
morning and then I make sure I get you
know 126 ounces of water which is a
gallon of water
throughout the day and of course two
truly wellness shots a day one in the
morning with my third ounces of water
one at two o'clock in the afternoon and
those wellness shots are full of Ginger
turmeric uh 100 1000 milligrams of
vitamin C vitamin D zinc uh and a lot of
uh of the electrolytes that your body
needs so it's anti-inflammatory it helps
boost your immune system and of course
it keeps you hydrated so I feel like you
teed me up for a commercial for my
coaching program and for my supplement
company for the record I don't know this
man but I appreciate you teeing that up
right on and listen I wanna I wanna ask
this because the fact that you were able
to name off
to it down to a t like every detail of
exactly what you take what's in it uh
you it's a routine every single day you
know exactly what's going to happen how
important is it to eat and actually not
even just nutrition but just in life how
important is it to just stick to a
routine a daily routine that you do
every single day to be able to get to
your goals huge I I think you know they
say like compounding interest is the
eighth wonder of the world if there was
a ninth wonder of the world it's
consistency consistency creates
compounding Factor anyone can be
successful for a period of time in 90
days you can get lean and jacked and
tight but then if you don't have that
consistency for decades
it's the decades is where I've where
I've built an Empire and generational
wealth it's the decades that I built so
much muscle memory you know this two
weeks ago I tore my tricep I'm still
lean I'm still tight I'm still I still
have abs and it's because I find ways to
work around my torn tricep until I get
it reattached I I don't use any excuse
my morning routine doesn't change when
I'm traveling when I'm overseas when I'm
in the country doesn't matter where I am
uh I am doing the same morning routine
waking up at 5 30 in the morning have my
30 ounces of water three gratitude text
messages that consistency compounded
over time creates exponential results in
anything and I think uh if if I can
magically wave a wand on this audience
and say man if there's one thing I want
you to do it is to get that disciplined
with your consistency and it will
compound your life here we go there we
go yeah awesome man Awesome by the way
before I get to the next question if you
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then of course share this right now this
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maintain our freedom in this great
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is if we share the message right so I
appreciate you saying that Leighton by
the way a huge shout out to vegan black
unicorn
um there was like a five euro donation
thank you so much that's going right to
Shriners and I'm gonna double that and
she asks how much sleep do you think
women and men need per night I read that
women need to sleep longer your opinion
I don't know how much sleep women need
different different than men I've always
read and understood that we need seven
to eight hours of restful sleep I didn't
know there was a difference between men
and women if there are I would imagine
that when a woman is going through her
monthly menstrual cycle I know that's
pretty taxing on the body just like I
suppose when I'm under the weather I
realize I need more sleep if you're gone
if you're a woman and I'm not a doctor
here guys but I play one on TV and also
on my only fans
um that's so stupid I don't have an only
fans but I should create an only fans I
got amazing feet and I know there's a
lot a lot of freaks out there that would
want to see my beautiful straight toes
and my soft skin on my feet triple these
super chats that's right that's right
five minutes yeah Shriners would be
loaded with my only fans money but
anyway vegan black queen or unicorn
um
so here's what I'm gonna say I'm
assuming and to me what I found after 48
years of experience where sleep is
concerned
I'll take six hours of restful sleep
over eight and a half hours where I've
tossed and turned and and wasn't able to
sleep yeah but seven to eight hours of
restful sleep consistently and here's
another thing I've learned again in my
time and then this was confirmed by Sean
Stevenson who's a scientist and he wrote
the book sleep smarter Sean Stevenson
and the book is called Sleep smarter
Sean talks about
your circadian rhythm and he talks about
sleeping at the same time every day
waking up at the same time so if you're
going to get only seven hours of sleep
or only six and a half you're better off
sleeping at the same time waking up at
the same time then getting eight hours
of sleep every night but sleeping early
one night and late the next night
because your circadian rhythm is off
yeah that's interesting okay cool
um mark
he says mark from Atlanta how do you
manage your anger
um how do you change your mindset when
you feel the anger is coming on I'm
having this issue for a very or assuming
I've been having this issue for a very
long time it's been detrimental to my
relationships yeah so so anger is once I
realized that anger is literally giving
control to somebody else I was like
that's never gonna happen again never
gonna happen again because we started
this off by saying I don't like people
having control over me I don't like
people telling me what to do so what do
you mean by that giving them control
well if someone or something angers you
that means whatever they did you gave
them power you gave them the power to
control your emotions right and so you
may sit here and start calling me all
these names right now out of the blue
and I'd be like what the hell man we've
known each other for years like I
thought we're Chums we're friends we're
buds
I could get angry and get upset or I can
go you know what maybe Leighton had a
bad morning maybe Leighton doesn't know
what he's saying maybe he's having an
epileptic seizure maybe he's having a
stroke maybe he's going to regret this
at some point but what he's not going to
do is manipulate my emotions and so I'm
still going to be calm and cool I could
walk away
I could certainly try and level with you
in a calm way but I'm not going to react
I'm always going to respond and that's
the difference when you allow someone or
something to control your emotions
you are giving them power and you are
now reacting I want to maintain control
and power and respond and so when I
figured that piece out
it changed my life it's easier said than
done because
you really need a lot of stoicism
personal discipline to be able to get
there
and so it's easier now at 48 than it was
at 38 than it was at 28 but if I can go
back to 28 knowing what I know now and
what I teach you guys throughout my
different episodes you guys in your 20s
should get there easily I think you
you're 27 now you you've
damn near mastered it like I can't
imagine what would have to piss you off
unless someone's like attacking you know
physically attacking you your family
your mom or someone you love like you
just maintain emotional discipline and
it's because you've done the work it
wasn't by accident and so it is possible
for someone in their 20s to get there
but you've got to do the work without
the work the outcome is unachievable I
also think you you have to go through
things to even be able to get through in
the first place like you said it's
easier now with the age that you are
because you've been through certain
things you understand that you'll never
give that power to somebody that means
you had to go through something that you
had to experience something to get there
same with me I've been uh I've never
been a hot head per se but there were
certain things that were just
automatically trigger me so I guess a
hot head in certain areas and I learned
that I didn't want to be that person I
saw on the other side you know what that
could do to somebody and being in
trouble and getting expelled and things
like that I was like that's not the way
I want to move around so uh anyways I
think you can see you have to go through
certain things sometimes you have to
bump your head otherwise you're not
going to grow so yeah and and you know
that that dude who left that comment and
I appreciate that that question
um sooner or later like I'm remember
time on the five freeway when I was
probably 19 years old some car was
pissing me off and I cut in front of
them and I slam my brakes
um they rear-ended me little did I know
there was four Dudes in it and they
knocked me out I was I was laid
unconscious on the side of the highway I
woke up in the back of the ambulance no
and so yeah yeah true story and so I was
a hot head yeah so what so they cut me
off so they so they honked at me so they
gave me the thing I don't even know what
it was but it set me off so bad that I
sped up cut in front of him slammed the
brakes
and thinking like all right then we're
gonna get out of the car and fight well
four on one I got my ass handed to me
and so when you get humbled enough you
realize all right is this really worth
it probably not yeah it's probably not
no I definitely not man that's crazy see
I do you have stories for days man I
can't wait until I've forgotten about
that one yeah I was gonna say
all right sorry I'm trying to catch up
we got a lot of super chats loading up
so after mark
thank you so much for that money uh
49.99 we appreciate it right to Shriners
doubled in the right to Shriners thank
you by the way all of you should go and
follow snej uh she's one of my coaching
clients an awesome human being and owns
a uh gym out here in Brea California
um Athletics
um an amazing gym amazing oh there we go
so your boy Mr Botticelli in the chat oh
Botticelli about it crazy shout out he
says no questions brother just happy to
be in the tribe working hard also what's
up blade what's good brother how you
doing good good did you see the tattoo
he got no
mussogee tattoo you can yeah yeah I
can't find this top his thing right now
but botticello if you can let us know in
the in the comment here because it was a
close-up it was the whole red musugi
face looked like a form but could have
been his butt cheek or his thigh I don't
know about a crazy is crazy but he got
the musogi tattoo and he said he's
shaving his hand for when he graduates
the project so far yeah that's so crazy
that's awesome love that guy all right
we got Chase since the super chatty said
all the books you recommend have made a
huge difference in my life the marathon
uh changed my life as well I've shared
with oh sorry he says he shared with you
um how do you find it best to keep
disciplined for things you know will
take years to get results
yeah so how do you find first of all
let's not rush over this Chase
congratulations how funny that you just
did what I said which is what I do with
my coaching clients who just pay me
and then you do what I say and then you
get the outcome you said you read the
books and all those books I think it was
like eight or nine books that I
recommended uh probably four episodes
ago five episodes ago you guys can go
find it on the on the podcast or the BK
show here on YouTube
um he read the books got an amazing
outcome and results I put out the free
Marathon challenge the training program
the nutrition guide he downloaded he did
the marathon got amazing results so how
do you maintain discipline for something
that's gonna like where the results are
going to come a long time from now you
keep doing these six week challenges so
mine didn't stop at just a marathon
challenge then it was rock climbing
challenge for six weeks and then it was
guitar lessons and then it was Salsa
dancing and then it was improv and then
it was uh Jiu Jitsu and then it was MMA
with Aaron Weatherspoon all not in that
order but the order is different but as
you keep doing these different six-week
challenges and you go to Every challenge
that makes you uncomfortable and it
hurts and it's awkward and it's
embarrassing and you don't you look like
a goofball trying to dance salsa when
you're 230 pounds of Awesomeness guess
what happens next you do develop
discipline in these other categories of
life that you could apply to this area
of life whether it's marriage or
business that's going to take a long
time and that same discipline bleeds
over and that's the beautiful thing
about discipline and consistency
consistency and discipline in one area
can bleed over into the other as long as
you keep practicing it on the short term
it will become a long-term habit right
there we go
there we go all right Ishmael Hernandez
sends a super chatty says thank you for
everything eight months ago I lost my
whole relationship due to infidelity and
I have two kids and I'm 24 but you help
me a lot mental state wise helping me to
see
helping me to see in a partner so we
maybe see some things in themselves and
then also what to look for in a future
partner any advice to let go and forgive
yes yeah Ishmael so what I want you to
do is and all of you should do this
after this live you're going to go to
Google and you're going to Google
emotional vibrational chart and you're
going to see a pyramid that is color
coded and you're going to see that
pyramid at the very bottom of that
pyramid
it'll say guilt and shame which is
probably what ishmael's feeling guilt
and shame for for what he did
guilt and shame are the lowest
vibrational frequency that a human emits
puts out
in the middle of that vibrational chart
you'll see acceptance
so guilt and shame is like it's
vibrational frequency 70.
acceptance halfway up the chart is 400
vibrational we want to be high
vibrational frequency and so brother if
you don't plan on doing this again if
you don't plan on being a [ __ ] bag again
then it's very simple
you accept what you did wrong you accept
the consequences
and you move away from the low
vibrational frequency of guilt and shame
and you accept that you did that and you
agree that you're going to become the
2.0 better version of yourself and just
by accepting you raise your vibrational
frequency and then from there you work
your way up to self-actualization to
self-improvement to self-mastery which
is at the tip of the tip of that
vibrational frequency chart awesome I
love it we if we just sit in guilt and
shame and wallow we're not doing
ourselves or our kids in his case or
anyone who depends on us any good you
know what I mean so we have to move away
from guilt and shame and accept the
consequences and then move on right
exactly so it kind of goes back to the
other question too I don't we got to
catch up on super chats but
um how important is it for number one
for people to forgive themselves and
then also to forgive in the sense of not
holding grudges because I also believe
that this is something that holds a lot
of people back you know they've been
wrong they've been hurt whether it was
intentional or not from another person
they hold on to it and they allow it to
kind of poison themselves but they still
just can't when that person even just
walks by it just bothers them you know
how are they how are they able to take
the steps to get past that
again I think it takes a high level of
maturity right this is why I say like
read books on stoicism read books on
emotional discipline because when you
can manage your emotions control your
emotions dial in your emotional
discipline when you can understand what
stoicism is that you are the absolute
manifest manifestation factor in your
life like no one else is and so if
somebody wronged me
again this goes back to giving them
control if every time they walk by me or
someone talks about them or I think of
them I get all worked up because they
wronged me
they still have control over me yeah I'm
still giving them power and so stoicism
tells us that I am the master of my
emotions stoicism tells us that I can
separate my feelings from the man that I
am and so you have to be able to
separate emotions have emotional
discipline and say you know what that
person wronged me that person offended
me that person hurt my feelings that
person betrayed me but
I can't let that hurt me
influence me impact me because then my
impact on the world is stifled my impact
on my family my ability to make money is
stifled and I can't allow that and so
with that you have to let go you have to
forgive and you have to forget
and you also have to say that that
person's probably [ __ ] up I'm not
going to hang out with them anymore when
I say forgive and forget that doesn't
mean go hang out with them right there's
plenty of people in my life that I've
forgiven and that I've forgotten and
moved on and when I changed my number
recently they never got that text that
says hey bro here's my new number it's
just simple as that when they reach out
to me I just I just don't go back here
we go
oh he says thank you Betos but she
cheated on me
um oh so Ishmael sorry uh you're in a
[ __ ] bag she was what she did is really
[ __ ] shitty and guess what that's on
her man that is on her not a reflection
of who you are
she probably has some demons
and um you were on the receiving end of
her stupidity and so again forgive
forget since you guys have kids together
you're gonna have to keep a civil
relationship but I certainly wouldn't
show any love to her and I certainly
wouldn't go back to her Ed what were you
saying that was the oh okay I appreciate
the question my bad I read that wrong I
must have read that wrong yeah but the
rest of you if you've been a [ __ ] bag
don't be a [ __ ] back exactly there you
go it wasn't for on purpose All Right
Said by someone who's been a [ __ ] bags
we've all been there man we've all been
there accountability is decide we need
to lean on for sure
um Alex I think is how you pronounce
this person's name says your advice
helped me to move to the next level any
advice for a man of of letters working
on ancient languages and manuscripts you
are a great inspiration Pedros oh my God
I I
do you understand the question I don't
know he says so any advice for a man of
letters working on ancient languages and
manuscripts I I mean I think the answer
would always be to go back to
your work ethic you know and whatever
whatever skill it is right I mean
whatever it is you're working on and if
you're working on ancient languages and
and
script wow I mean this is like he's
doing something that history is gonna
uh access for decades and generations to
come understand that your work is very
meaningful work uh just like all of our
works are meaningful work like
everything we do like the trash man when
they come and pick up the trash like
several years ago here in Chino Hills
the trash uh whatever Waste Management
they went on a strike
very quickly I realized how meaningful
their work is because our trash cans
were overflowing but the raccoons were
coming and eating all that [ __ ] there
was a mess in my driveway everywhere and
I was like what the [ __ ] is going on so
even the trash man has meaningful work
and you have to find the meaning in your
work so that you can continue to go
doesn't mean that it's going to be
meaningful to everybody but all of you
here think that I do meaningful work
which is why we're here and so but
there's plenty of people out there that
don't really give a [ __ ] about what I do
and so that's okay too I'm just going to
be speaking to the people that really
see the meaning in my work right 100
percent
all right Alexander um he didn't have a
question or anything it looks like he
just sent 50 bucks so thank you
Alexander we appreciate that thank you
Alexander man you're the man shout out
to him and so I want to ask you this
before we continue I want to I want to
ask my own question I was talking to a
buddy of mine this morning actually
we're sending voice messages back and
forth he's telling me about some things
he's going through and
um you know his attitude was more so
uh life is just hard you know it feels
like the universe is just coming down on
me and I basically responded I was like
dude you got to lean into accountability
man like I haven't once heard you say
that
you didn't get that job at Tesla or
whatever other place you're applying
because of something that you did or
maybe that you didn't do and I think
it's important for both right men and
women to hold to keep themselves
accountable but obviously we are men and
a lot of your content is serving men and
I think it's particularly important for
men to hold themselves accountable and
say hey maybe I didn't get that gig
because I didn't do something or maybe I
didn't show up I didn't come correct you
know I could have done something more or
whatever or maybe you just didn't get it
because there's someone else who was
better qualified but what would you say
to that person if they're coming to you
you know with that kind of attitude like
how do they change that
well you keep moving forward as a man
our only job is to keep moving forward
on our mission every man needs a purpose
a mission and a team and this comes from
my good friend will Brenham who's a
retired Navy SEAL and in fact when he
left the SEAL Teams uh he thought that
all right I'm going to start a business
and I'm going to be successful and then
realize how difficult business is and he
was like man being a Navy SEAL was
easier than starting a business right
and so he's a great dude and and uh he I
go I go what happened he goes I quickly
fell into like a depression and I was in
a funk and I was in a position where I
just felt like I no longer had a mission
I no longer had purpose and I no longer
had a team that is by the way whether
you're a Navy SEAL an entrepreneur an
employee if you're a man if you have a
[ __ ] hanging between your legs you need
a purpose Mission and a team I'd argue
to say that most women need the same
thing the difference is that women have
built-in purpose because your body
at some point your DNA is like you
should have a baby or when you do have a
baby you have a built-in Mission and
purpose like that baby that human came
from you you gave birth to it something
that no man can do I know uh Joe Biden
and his crew says that men can have
babies now but you can't you can't and
so women have built-in purpose men don't
so we must always be chasing our purpose
Mission and a team so that leads to the
next thing
doesn't mean that just because you're
chasing it or looking for it you're
going to find it right away because life
comes to us in winning seasons and
losing seasons
I had been winning all the way up to
March 16 2020.
like I had a big winning streak for
about three four years I had some
physical injuries from lifting weights
Etc but business-wise family wise
everything wise I was winning and then
March 16th 2020 came the pandemic and
you all know that the pandemic massively
impacted gyms and restaurants in a very
bad way Fit Body Boot Camp lost 218
franchise locations in the year of 2020.
it's crazy we didn't bring on board any
new locations in that time well we
brought on six that's nothing to bring
on six new locations in one year is
nothing we typically bring on six to
nine new locations per month
and so I found myself in a losing season
and it was 2020 and half of 2021 and
then I found myself getting slowly back
into a winning season I've lived long
enough where I know that life does come
to me with winning seasons and losing
seasons and so now I've been in an
awesome winning season we are having
record-breaking months and quarters here
at Fit Body Boot Camp selling more
franchise locations than ever before
more people are opening franchise Fit
Body franchises than ever before they're
passionate about Fitness they're
passionate about making money they want
to align with me and what a great way to
do it right well cool and everything up
until two weeks ago was going great and
then me and Andrew had my son had a
great chest workout and then we put on
the boxing gloves The Spar and then bam
our punches collided and my tricep tore
right off the bone the tendon and it
retracted eight millimeters up now I'm
in a bit of a losing season in life in
my health and fitness category but
that's okay I'm working around it is
[ __ ] with my head a little bit yes
cause I want to do heavy shoulder
presses I want to do big explosive
movements like burpees but I can't right
now but I am working around it but I
realize again I've lived long enough
where I'm not owed anything your friend
there is not owed anything I'm keep I'm
going to keep chasing my mission purpose
and do it with my team right
but sometimes it'll take longer some
like to say it's God's will we're on
God's timeline you're on the universe's
timeline but understand that the life
comes to us in winning seasons and
losing seasons and you might be in a
losing season if you keep holding
yourself accountable and moving forward
you will expedite the winning season
that's guaranteed to come right and when
you're in a winning season know that
there's a losing season somewhere around
the corner because that is life exactly
only dead people have consistent lives
that's right that's right
all right Tom Tomahawk I almost read
Tony Hawk Tom Hawk he says love the
podcast Pedros I want to launch online
courses teaching cinematic music I write
music professionally but fear judgment
slash negativity from others in my
industry who look down on online courses
any advice yeah man I have a very
important advice first of all [ __ ]
everybody in your industry who's going
to look down on you that's just the
first thing you have to look at number
two if it's if it's if you really feel
this is your call and you're meant to do
this the Creator the higher power the
universe God Allah whoever you believe
in
has bestowed this on you then you are
letting the Creator down do you want to
let down some goofball co-workers or do
you want to let down
yourself and your Creator and your
spouse if you told your spouse that this
is what I'm meant to do I do not want to
let down my Creator myself or the people
that I love uh because some people in
the peripheral are gonna look down on me
judge me criticize me [ __ ] them that's
thing number one thing number two is
there's people out there who are looking
for your course who want to learn to
become cinematic music writers and don't
know how and they every day they are
looking for a solution
they are depressed and sad that they
don't have an answer you've got the
solution and the most selfish thing you
can do is not put it out because of fear
of judgment right and so with that you
have to move forward even with
the notion that you will be judged and
you will be remember there's there's
sites dedicated to Gandhi Mother Teresa
and Jesus hating on those three people
and they were pretty Flawless people
right and so if Gandhi Jesus Mother
Teresa and other great humans of History
have dedicated sites where people hate
on them and talk [ __ ] on them what
absolves you from that it doesn't that
is the path to success that's a fact
all right Boomer Fitness rights keep
bringing the thunder look forward to
seeing you open for the rock someday
that so that's that's my friend Brian
I've known him for over 10 years uh he's
out there in the um in the Washington uh
state area uh thank you Brian uh I will
one day hopefully be opening up for the
rock uh not for any other reason other
than I want to be able to impact our
military men and women and I know the
rock goes out there overseas and speaks
to our military men and women and um
hey he started following me on Instagram
right seven I don't know six eight
months ago so uh we're one step closer
we're Instagram buddies there we go
all right grant Keller writes I'm 22 and
started listening to you in December at
a low point in my life I'm now the
highest insurance producer in my area
for my company and my confidence has
never been so high thank you Pedro
[ __ ] hey Grant good for you man first
off thank you for the donation I'm gonna
match it we're going to donate it to
Shriners Children's Hospital secondly
again a walking Testament he was at the
lowest point in his life in December
when he started to listen to my show and
then now he says he's the highest
insurance producer in his area for the
company that he works for and his
confidence has never been higher is that
an accident so December so we are in
June right now so that's what seven
months ago right it seven short months
he went from the lowest point in his
life to the highest point in his life he
went from a losing season to a winning
season and make no mistake about it
Grant there is a losing season coming
around the corner it could be months
away it could be years away but what you
know now through this life experience is
that there was a formula to get out of
this [ __ ] that you were sitting in in
that low point and odds are if you
listen to my show which you said you do
you started working out you started
focusing on making money you started
being kind to others you started
probably sending out gratitude text
messages getting consistent sleep not
isolating and insulating yourself but
being around other like-minded people
reading those books that we talked about
like it is a Formula if we're gonna bake
cake we're gonna go to bettycrocker.com
take her [ __ ] recipe by the
ingredients measure them out exactly and
then bake a delicious cake if we decide
that well you know I like Betty
Crocker's cakes and I'm going to buy the
ingredients but I'm going to replace the
flour with sand because I think sand is
going to work out better or I just
decided to because I think I know better
you're not going to have [ __ ] cake
and you're going to go see Betty
Crocker's recipe didn't work and so if
you listen to my [ __ ] but you don't take
action on it you won't get results if
you listen to my [ __ ] but you don't do
it exactly like I want you to and I ask
you to do it you're not going to get the
results Grant is a Living Testament and
good for you bro I appreciate you by the
way man we've got huge announcement to
make holy [ __ ] let's get into it all
right so Grant by the way and all of you
should be coming out to bedrose coolian
live September 8th and 9th and we just
launched the last 48 minutes ago the
website went live go to
bedroscooling.com forward slash live
bedrosecooling.com forward slash live
and you guys are going to be the first
to register at the lowest possible price
because in uh 20 some odd hours the
price goes up and then in four weeks
again the price goes up again for
bedrose Queen live it's a two-day event
out here in Costa Mesa California don't
make any stupid excuses like well if it
was in my state I would come if it was
in my city I would come I have to
babysit my dog I've got something going
on just cancel whatever you have get on
an airplane and fly out to Costa Mesa
California so go to bedroscooling.com
forward slash live because I've told you
guys that proximity is powerful and
we're going to spend two days together
in person 800 to a thousand attendees is
what I'm expecting I'm bringing some
amazing speakers on stage retired Navy
SEAL Purple Heart recipient and New York
Times best-selling author Jason Redman
our dear friend Mike Rasheed pro boxer
amazing entrepreneur and great leader in
the masculinity uh sphere uh Bryce
Henson the CEO of Fit Body Boot Camp and
my business partner like you want to
talk about leading and managing teams
that make big bucks hundreds of millions
of dollars like Bryce is going to teach
how we scale our companies how we grow
um Steve Eckhart uh my my one of my
co-founders for the project and the
angry Marine instructor who runs the
project he's also a great life coach an
amazing entrepreneur and we've got all
these amazing people and and way more uh
Dan Fleischmann he's my he's my business
partner in the black site Ranch that we
bought together in Temecula he's an
angel investor and like dozens of
companies he's one of the he's one the
youngest entrepreneur to take a business
public on the stock market uh he hell he
uh he trademarked some name when he was
19 years old and then sold it for seven
million dollars the dude is a like
phenomenal entrepreneur and again he's
going to share his strategies on how to
grow your personal brand on Instagram
YouTube podcast Facebook like he's
massive on using social media platforms
just like I am and then of course Craig
Valentine a good friend of mine a
business partner he's the most
disciplined man on the planet he's going
to talk about life structure your
morning routine and how to organize your
day to set yourself up to win and then
I'm going to be spending the most amount
of time on stage literally coaching you
guys on business
self-mastery becoming your 2.0 self
Marketing sales like all of the things
that we touch on in 20 to 25 minute
episodes here on the bedrose cooling
show we're gonna do a two day Deep dive
like in person and then I want you guys
to connect the network earlier we were
talking about like how do you find your
tribe how do you find the people to
belong to how do you find the
like-minded people the Eagles to soar
with like this is it you you get off the
interwebs and you get on a plane and you
come to bedrose Queen live on September
8th and 9th in Costa Mesa California and
I want you guys to join us we got three
levels of tickets the lowest level of
tickets is like 490 bucks or something
and I'm telling you you would never get
access to people like this from Navy
Seals to Marines to top entrepreneurs to
to to some of the greatest like New York
Times best-selling authors uh
entrepreneurs some of the best thought
leaders and I've got a panel coming of
the most high performing humans you've
ever met and I'm not going to share
who's on that panel but I'm telling you
right now that panel alone is going to
be worth the cost of admission and I
want to see you guys there I want to
shake your hands I want to talk to you
and that is why we're holding bedrose
cooling live September 8th and 9th so go
to bedresscooling.com forward slash live
and register while you still can because
tomorrow we're sending this out to my
entire email list I'm pumping it out all
over social media after this and it is
something that's going to sell out
quickly so you might as well get on
board and show up and join us and plus
fuel Hunt's going to be there truly
we're going to be giving away a bunch of
truling stuff you're getting a a custom
uh bedrose coolian shirt from fuel hunt
for free everyone who attends so there's
a lot of cool [ __ ] we're giving away and
of course
we're donating money uh part of the
proceeds from veterans cooling live is
going to Shriners children's hospital so
you're also doing a lot of good we are
doing good together and so you've got no
excuse to to not come don't say I'll
come next year I'll think about it or
whatever it is the procrastinator who
kicks the can down the road and then
tomorrow becomes next week next week
becomes next month next month becomes
next year and you're still sitting in
the same place while dudes like uh I
think it was Derek or or others who like
just in a matter of months take action
and then execute and then change their
lives and so I want you to come I want
you to find a way to get the money to
show up and then I want you to take
exactly what we teach you and execute
that day like we're going to teach you
[ __ ] that you can execute that day on
your social media no matter how tiny
your social media following is to start
making money to start getting leads to
start getting more eyeballs to start
building a personal brand so that you
can be a human of income impact and
influence because that is what we're
here to do on this Planet here we go all
right do we have any more uh no super
chats but I do want to acknowledge uh
two things so Leo Yang wrote in the chat
he said hey big Jose I took your six
week uh 26.2 Challenge and ran my first
ever Marathon at the Rock and Roll
Marathon in San Diego last Sunday I
couldn't believe I did it in such short
time thank you so much
dude first off
congratulations secondly I did the San
Diego Rock and Roll Marathon too and
that was an awesome Marathon to do so
good on you and by the way yeah someone
just uh said yeah Phil Heath too yes
Phil Heaton seven time Mr Olympia Phil
Heath is going to take the stage and
share exactly with you the mindset of a
champion right the mindset of a champion
what it takes to be a champion year
after year after year after year at the
highest level of his sport bodybuilding
seven time Mr Olympia so like you you
could never get access to these humans
for such a low price no one is there to
pitch anything to you this is not one of
those big pitches where every speaker is
pitching something I [ __ ] hate those
events and so these are all my friends
and I've asked them to come and pour
into I would I would have them come and
pour into my son and my daughter and my
family I've asked him to come and pour
into you guys as well and so that's what
we're gonna do for two days uh let's
take a few non-super chats right now for
sure I had somebody that asked he says
what do you think about the book or
first of all Zechariah huckstep shout
out to you he says what do you think of
the book How to Win Friends and
Influence People it wasn't on your your
list of books that you shared in the
last video that you did yeah good
question right so uh How to Win Friends
and Influence People is it a good book I
think it's a good book
um if there was a better book by um who
the [ __ ] wrote that
um
oh man How to Win Friends and Influence
People
was that Carnegie
is it Robert Robert Dale Carnegie right
Dale Carnegie wrote that uh it's not a
bad book but what I didn't want to do is
create a list of like 25 books that
everyone's got to read right so I wanted
to keep it under 10 and that's what I
did is is How to Win Friends and
Influence People a good book absolutely
should you read it yes
um you know is there great lessons in it
yes but I believe the books that I
shared with you guys on this on that
show on that episode The Nine books are
more relevant for you I would start with
those nine books and then trust me when
I say like in fact you know what I'm
gonna do I'm gonna put up a post in the
community in my uh YouTube Community
post I'm gonna go once you've read those
nine books and I'll list them
um you ought to read also these like 10
15 20 others as well but those nine I
think are fundamental those nine are I
think are crucial and those nine I think
you ought to read at least once a year
okay
um Arnell says can you backtrack to some
super chats you've missed please thanks
I don't see any so I have Alexander who
didn't have a question and then I have
um a shot who we already addressed but
it's still here those only two that I
see I don't know if you guys let me know
if we missed any super chats let us know
and guys in here if you guys can see any
super chats are you sure yeah double
check I didn't miss anything but as of
right now
I don't see anything you guys say
anything that we might have missed any
questions
oh really
is there a way we can have them pop back
up
starting over alone at 41 in an unknown
surrounding without any support system
his name is Arnell
Arnell wants to know how you would deal
with depression
um abandonment and starting in a new
area right after at the age of 41. with
no support system so
I'm a big believer in what jocka wrote
in his book extreme ownership and my
whole life uh once I got my [ __ ]
together I would always prioritize and
execute so first of all he named off
several things I would prioritize the
highest thing which is if I'm alone I'm
gonna go find a tribe so I'm going to
join a gym I'm going to go join Jiu
Jitsu uh maybe I'm gonna go and find a
group of people like-minded people to
hang out with because being alone is not
good when you insulate and isolate
yourself that leads to more of sadness
depression anxiety loneliness and loss
of hope so first do that secondly you've
been abandoned I'm guessing someone left
you your marriage is over you have to
restart what do you do you go back to I
think it's episode two or three which is
get jacked and make more money because I
need you to fall in love with yourself
Arnell I need you to stop feeling pity
for yourself I need you to stop feeling
sorry for yourself and I'm sorry that
happened to you brother but that's the
[ __ ] Human Condition man people are
[ __ ] up out of the blue they leave you
out of the blue they cheat on you out of
the blue they take on a crack habit I
met a young woman who was
who came up to me at an airport and she
goes hey I just want to let you know my
husband died four weeks ago and I was
like oh my gosh like I'm so sorry what
happened fentanyl overdose and she
started crying like
like that's abandonment right he has an
addiction
had an addiction he died he abandoned
her right and so I said what you can do
now is honor his memory honor him do you
have a kid yes I've got two kids honor
your kids
by getting in the best shape of your
life because when you get in shape you
are also using all those traits of good
habits that we talked about Focus
discipline consistency delayed
gratification start making more money
throw yourself into making more money
because Arnell it seems like you have
more time on your hands right now so
throw yourself into making more money
because money allows you to help more
people and become selfless when we are
feeling sorry for ourselves when
disaster happens we've been abandoned we
get hurt we start getting selfish all
selfish people end up going down the
spiral of sadness depression anxiety and
hopelessness and so Arnell go out there
and help people go find a soup kitchen
every weekend and help out uh go find a
young boy's group and adopt a young boy
from Big Brothers Big Sisters
and adopt him and pour into him start
working out getting lean getting jacked
start making more money
um and and find yourself a tribe to
belong to but prioritize the things that
matter to you and then start chipping
them off quickly like speed of
implementation matters because if you
don't the darkness only gets darker
there you go and then um Zach Hess and
Jeff Rondon they said they both sent
um super chats as well do you guys see
Zach Hess on there
yeah Hess h-e-s-s yeah
yeah for other young 20-something year
old males and myself what is a war room
what is your top three tips for
constructing a war room
for constructing a war room yeah our war
room is just a a quiet conference room
that has a refrigerator with uh all
types of drinks in it like Refreshments
not alcohol
um like it's got energy drinks for some
of my clients who are into energy drinks
it's got obviously spring water not just
drinking water I like spring water
sparkling spring water it's got like
Zevia like the healthier colas and then
we've got healthy snacks up there in a
little
Bowl uh like you know whatever cashews
and pistachios and protein bars and then
a giant marker board and then a door so
that we can not hear the outside noise
and that is the war room that is where
my teams meet my leadership teams meet
to solve through problems that is where
I meet with my coaching clients to
execute on their goals if you've seen me
put up I think right now in my stories
on Instagram there's a picture of me
with a coaching client in the war room
and you can see the marker board behind
me that I had to
fuzz out because obviously his game plan
for success is on that marker board and
I don't want to just expose that to the
world that's his game plan for success
but you can kind of see but it's just a
conference room with Refreshments with
with water the bathroom is right across
the hallway and no one comes in there to
bug us because that is very focused
intentional work we're doing to
blueprint the most desired outcome for
that specific client what was their
second did they have another question
uh that was good just how would you
construct one uh by hiring a contractor
is how you construct one if you go I
don't know if you put up four walls in a
[ __ ] door there you go all right we
also have Jeff Rondon too I see there's
another one from Paul I'm gonna get to
that one and then Juan I see his I'm
gonna answer his or ask you to answer
his Jeff Rondon I can't see his though
do you see his on there slums uh forward
slash flunk advice and that's my first
super but I can't find anything else I
don't know what that means but anyways
shout out to Jeff Rondon for sending a
Super Chat we appreciate you oh somebody
asked episode five be a gangster like
Jesus he said what what happened to him
this is Paul's only give you context on
Paul Paul's coming to class uh zero one
seven MDK in two weeks two weeks and uh
he's excited man we've been going back
and forth on on DM's all the projects
Instagram my Instagram and uh he went to
musogi and then also I believe the first
time I met Paul was at the Dana Point
event and so I I tell you all this to
say that a second ago when you said that
people need to take action and just lean
into immediate Massive Action and go and
hang around these people and spend the
spend the time and do the things Paul is
one person that's doing it he's been to
almost all the events so anyways he
wanted to know about what happened to uh
yeah what happened
well so if you guys listen to episode
five I explained the story of Jesus he
made it like uh almost he made it the
first 30 hours of the project but he had
hurt his eye so we took him to the
emergency room and if you go listen to
episode five you'll hear what happened
next what a [ __ ] gangster of a man
Jesus was and uh so he's gonna come back
I believe class 17. I I heard I think
Byron say that he's scheduled for class
seven not 17 I'm sorry 18 October
October okay for October so that's
what's going to happen and I can't wait
to see Jesus go through the project and
uh and graduate this time around here we
go awesome man awesome and then we had
Juan where did it go he says my question
for Uncle B is what's the difference
between motivation and inspiration
motivation is something that
comes to you from the outside like
motivation is almost like a dopamine hit
inspiration is when I see what you're
doing and I'm so inspired by it like you
didn't say anything to pump me up and to
gas me up that is motivating me to pump
me up and gas me up is to motivate me by
me observing watching what you're doing
and like oh my God this guy got jacked
in the last nine months oh my God this
guy's got his life squared away I'm
inspired by you inspiration comes from
within motivation comes from outside
inspiration comes from within
inspiration is like serotonin so both
dopamine and serotonin are the feel-good
hormones feel good chemicals dopamine is
quick it's quick and instant you're
scrolling you get a lot of likes and
comments ooh dopamine hit you snort some
cocaine you get a dopamine hit you you
get your rocks off you get a dopamine
hit serotonin is you finished building a
car in your garage over the last eight
months that is serotonin like you stand
back and you're like I'm [ __ ] proud
of that that is serotonin serotonin is
saying I got this idea for this bring in
the outdoor boot camp indoors and
calling it fit Body Boot Camp and then
15 years later you have hundreds of
locations worldwide right that is
serotonin and I want serotonin so
inspiration comes from within and it's
longer lasting dopamine is motivation
comes externally and as soon as you walk
away from that person who's gassing you
up a day or two later you're back to
being the same goofball that's normal
got it
um and then also Cody okay send a super
chat so if you guys can look for that
one while we're looking for that
national board Services says hey Pedro
so I started listening to you a few
months ago you've given me great hope in
creating the 2.0 best version of myself
yeah I thank God for your existence and
meeting you is now on my bucket list
well now you can in September so there
it is there it is Mr National bulwark
Services looking forward to seeing you
at BK live
um by the way better schoolinglive.com
forward slash live to join us September
8th and 9th in Costa Mesa California
looking forward to meet you my friend
there we go all right did you guys find
Cody's yeah he says I have a hard time
being passionate and driven I want a
business but nothing really interests me
completely how can a man discover his
passion
all right so Cody says I have a hard
time being passionate and driven
um I can't find a business that I'm
excited about how can a man find his
Niche and his passion right so before
you go starting a business Cody maybe
what you ought to do is consider working
for people that you like and respect and
see if you like doing sales you like
doing management you like doing the
marketing side of it you like doing the
leadership part of it sometimes
you're not going to find what you're
looking for early on and by the way your
passion your Niche is not lost so it's
not something you find it's something
you develop and you develop by
experiencing things like I've worked in
the food industry I've worked in in in I
guess I've really worked in the food
industry in the service industry at
Disneyland uh customer service industry
um and I realize like I love
serving people I also worked at a gay
bar as a bouncer for a period of time
and I didn't like loud music violence
and any of that stuff so I was like all
right that's not for me I'm not going to
open up a bar it's not going to be my
thing but I really love making people's
day so I'm going to start creating
businesses that transforms people's
lives right and so I also had great
mentors who I got to see like Jim Franco
was a great mentor I saw what he did he
had a service business and I saw how he
treated his employees and I was like oh
I like the part how he inspires and
motivates his employees but I don't like
the part where he has to sit there and
do the accounting he would sit there
with the accountants and do the
accounting I'm like I want to be an
accountant that looks boring because
he'd try and explain it to me and I
would just glaze over so when you go
work for someone that you like and
respect who has a business that you may
be interested in you might start
developing interests in some area of
that business marketing sales
leadership management
and when you do
then you start going oh maybe I can
create
my niche in this one area so understand
that developing your purpose in your
Niche takes time but you have to go
experience many different gigs to see
which ones you despise and hate and
which ones are like oh this is
interesting maybe I could see myself
doing this for a period of time and also
all of you should understand now now
that I'm on this side of my 30s right
I'm 48 about to turn 49 next month and
then heading into 50. well guess what
your purpose does change as you evolve
and get older like when my kids were
born before my kids were born I didn't
mind traveling as much you know I didn't
mind traveling as much as my kids were
born I traveled started to travel less
because they were a large part of my
purpose I didn't want to miss them
growing up now that they are so
interactive with me I travel even less
so I raised my prices on my speaking fee
so that when I'm asked to speak it's
fifty thousand dollars to speak and not
ten thousand dollars to speak so that
it's worth my time kind of like the
potential speaking gig that I'm going to
have there in Australia next year I go
hey how can I take them with me right
and so you know your purpose changes uh
I never thought about doing anything
like the project or The Squire program I
was in it for Fitness I like the Fitness
business I like helping people transform
their bodies because I know they
transforms their mind but as I got older
I realized that men are suffering in
silence I realize that young boys don't
have a rite of passage into becoming men
healthy men and I was like oh that's a
new calling I feel called to do that at
this age with Gray beard and more wisdom
I realize our country needs this and so
my passion and my purpose changed and so
understand that that will always happen
here we go
also Ingram fit life and I recognize the
last name I know who this is but I can't
remember his first name but he said he
also sent super chats
um do you guys see it and by the way
just to give you backstory on who this
person is too we also been having back
and forth conversations via DM he's also
coming to the project in two weeks oh
nice and so um so we've got a couple a
couple people in here who are excited
man to uh to get thrown into the Thunder
with Steve
okay cool appreciate your donation man
we appreciate that right on man you guys
are awesome man you guys are just
donating money and this money's going
100 to Shriners I'm gonna match this
money even the wacky little euros and
Canadian pesos and Mexican rubles and
all that stuff by the way if you can't
tell I'm being funny and sarcastic so
don't try and correct me in the comments
yeah it's not rubles it's Pace I get it
I get it I have a dry sense of humor
here we go uh Alexander says uh hey I'm
Alex from Battle ready oh it says Alex
from Battle ready again just saying hi
I'm living proof that everything can
change once you flip the switch purpose
over pleasure all day [ __ ] yeah purpose
over pleasure all day by the way I saw
someone post a ask in the comment is Wes
Watson going to be there well you all
know that Wes Watson and I did the high
performance Summit last year uh Wes is a
dear friend of mine a homie uh and I'm
not going to tell you if Wes is going to
be there but I'm going to tell you A lot
of people that you might be looking up
to or looking towards and want to
connect with will be at the bedrose
coolion live and and so September 8th
and 9th bedrooms cooling live go to
bedrosecoolion.com forward slash live
and uh you can register for it so some
guests who are going to be speaking or
on the site and many guests who will be
there are not on the site and you will
be surprised to meet them there you go
uh Alejandro says Hey Pedro's my brother
is 23 and he is deep in an MLM
multi-level marketing and I was
wondering what's your thoughts on mlms
and I care about him and want to help
him but don't want him to push me away
also thank you you've changed my life
first of all thank you brother I
appreciate the donation I appreciate you
telling me I've changed your life the
biggest thing you can do now is pay it
forward to others and I know you will
secondly uh your brother's in MLM I know
plenty of people in multi-level
marketing whether it's uh Amway whether
it's Isagenix whether it's World
Financial Group and they do well if you
are into it you will do well if you are
not into it if you you're not one of
those people that wants to go talk to
your uncle and aunt and your brother and
sister and your cousins and get them in
on the thing then you're not going to do
well right so you have to know yourself
and once you know yourself you'll know
whether you're the type of person that
could succeed at MLM or not from what
I've heard and I don't know anything
about Amway but I've heard it's been
around for dozens of years and it's a
reputable organization so if it works
for him and he's truly going to work it
and do that work it's hard work
multi-level marketing but man you could
build a downline and an income stream
like no one's business you know would I
go out and do it it's just not part of
my personality I like this is how I sell
I'm like look man here's who I am here's
what I have I have supplements that are
absolutely clean I have a franchise
that is just just backed up by Massive
support and and success is inevitable as
long as you do what we say I have a
coaching program that works like I just
talk about what what I have and I know I
charge a premium for it but the services
through the roof and the supporters
through the roof and people go hey I
want the best I'm going to work with
Pedros and I'm going to get the outcome
so I'm not the guy that's going to go
knock on 100 doors and do that but that
doesn't mean that MLM doesn't work it
just it won't work for me because I
won't work it right right there we go
guys by the way are we all caught up on
super chats I just want to make sure I
didn't miss anybody
few more there's a few more it says V
I'm a father of a one and a half year
old boy with a baby on the way any
advice for maintaining sleep and routine
in that situation
you can't sorry go ahead I'm gonna have
late and answer this let me tell you
about this man yeah no but um seriously
it's I've really sleep when they sleep
if you can but then it's hard because
once they go to sleep then you're like
well finally they're down let me go and
get this done and get that done and that
done then by the time you finish that
that task then they're awake again so um
it's gonna be some tough times for a
couple months man but just know that it
will come to an end that they'll start
to sleep through the night and you'll
get your you know you'll get better
asleep might not be quite the same
because maybe they'll like you said you
know they'll have diarrhea at night or
they'll throw up or they have a
nightmare or whatever the case is or
maybe they just have an off you know uh
uh like uh what's what's the thing I'm
looking for uh like they have like
setbacks you know oh yeah yeah so where
they we're sleeping good for a little
while and then now they're they can't
for some reason so anyways man just know
for like six months or so it's just how
it's going to be that's the cool thing
about it is like hey congratulations but
it's only for a finite amount of time a
few months right like less than a year
and like with Andrew when my son was
born he was awake like every hour and a
half throughout the night we thought it
was going to be the same with Chloe
Chloe would sleep like in four five hour
chunks yeah and so man maybe this little
dude is gonna sleep through the night uh
maybe he's not more likely that he's not
right and you've got a little dude on
the way now and you know he might sleep
through the night he may not but you
know so you're not counting on it I hope
so whatever it is you're just gonna
power through it because it's only for a
period of time and if you look at it as
a challenge like your own project like
your own musogi then you start welcoming
it and let me give you guys an example
of that uh and then we got to start
wrapping this up soon since I've got I
got to go upstairs and do some coaching
calls with my coaching clients but um
what was it about four weeks ago I was
gonna fly from Ontario Canada Ontario
California to
North Carolina to speak
at
an event
the Fit Body Boot Camp Mastermind that
Bryce my CEO was running and I was this
one of the speakers at this Mastermind
in North Carolina well
my flight got delayed because someone on
the flight as it was coming in had died
so they had to reroute the plane and by
the time the plane got in it was
supposed to be at 7 A.M then it was 10
a.m next you know it's 3 P.M
and I'm finally boarding the plane
to go to North Carolina this particular
flight was going to land me in Atlanta
and then Atlanta I was going to connect
for a short flight to North Carolina
well guess what when you board your
plane here in California at 3 P.M by the
time you get to Atlanta there's no more
flights left in North Carolina so
they're like hey sir we'll put you up at
a hotel in MC luck I don't need a hotel
I need to get to North Carolina because
tomorrow morning I speak and it's
already midnight in Atlanta so I text
Joan uh Jones my assistant I'm like Joni
here's what's going on I'm stuck in
Atlanta I don't want to stay at a hotel
she goes do you want me to fly you back
I said no don't fly me back I need you
to rent find me a rental car she finds
me a rental car she texts me where to go
I go and get the rental car and I drive
through the night five and a half hours
from Georgia through South Carolina into
North Carolina and get to Charlotte with
two and a half hours to spare catch a
quick workout to wake myself up shower
check into my hotel and shower and then
go across the street to the other hotel
to speak and so as I was driving to
through the night and the inner
conversation was like dude you own Fit
Body Boot Camp that's your CEO running
the event you can just text Bryce and be
like hey man can I speak eight hours
from now like later in the afternoon
just put another couple speakers ahead
of me so I can get some sleep better yet
how about I'm just gonna fly home Bryce
because a disaster happened now I gotta
rent a car drive three states I'm like
don't be a [ __ ] bro told myself don't
be a [ __ ] just drive through these
three states and speak and then as I'm
driving I'm like you know what this is
like my own personal project I'm just
going to project this [ __ ] and so I'm
going through I'm like and literally
halfway through as I'm falling asleep
and I'm biting on my tongue and I'm
sticking my hand out the window all
these little tricks to stay awake I'm
like I hope I get a flat tire because
I'm there I haven't changed a flat tire
for like 20 some odd years I hope I get
a flat tire in a in a state that I'm not
familiar with in the middle of the night
because I'm curious because how I'm
going to respond or react right and at
that point like the human animal and and
human being we're having a conversation
right and so the point of this is man
you're gonna love having a son that's a
given but you're you're going to project
through that [ __ ] and just look at this
personal Challenge and you'll get to the
other side of it just like every other
human has this is true this is true all
right so last couple ones real quick
Cody's just saying thank you Cody okay
sends another Super Chat says thank you
for your response all the way from
Honolulu Hawaii I would love to see a
gym of yours down here one day yeah
thank you Cody appreciate it brother and
then shout out to Tyler birdie sent in a
a nice Super Chat genuine gen sorry
generous Super Chat appreciate you and
your mission B thank you so much Tyler
by the way Tyler is the guy who builds
all of our websites so when you go to
bedroscooling.com when you go to
um my my YouTube page
um betterswing.com forward slash uh what
is it podcast or better schooling.com
forward slash live for the live event
Tyler's the web developer out of Canada
who uh builds all these uh High
converting pages so there you go Tyler
appreciate you and you do awesome work
for us man thank you and appreciate the
donation awesome awesome and I was
wrapping up the last one says uh from
Lupe uh oh wait this is the same Lupe
that graduated
I can't tell I'm trying to look at that
uh at their their picture anyways it
looked like a project grad if not no
worries they said hey B are there any
are there any plans to do the musogi
after wait sorry again
F I'm trying to figure out after the
first weekend of the Year okay so
multiple times a year uh after doing it
this year on my b day a lot of things uh
started to manifest in my life okay so
this is something that came around yes
yeah so so Lupe we are gonna do another
musogi class uh beginning of 2024. we
might even do one right around October
maybe November of 2023 so stay tuned as
long as you're on my email list or you
follow me on the social medias uh we'll
let you know but definitely the first or
second week of
of 2024 we'll be doing a musogi out
there on my Ranch in Temecula for show
um thank you guys for keeping you guys
keep sending Super Chat said I know you
have to get off in a second but I don't
know
well let's knock them out man my clients
are cool yeah lastly knock these last
two out stop sending money folks slow it
down it's going crazy we appreciate it
but we're trying to get through these so
thank you guys so anyways uh Chris
Trammell uh says thank you for sharing
uh your life's work is well sorry thank
you for sharing life work is the best
work I go live in 30 minutes and I'm
totally inspired by what you shared I'd
love to host you one day appreciate it
man I'd love to be on your show one day
so thank you so much when you uh reach
out to me via DMS Leighton will connect
with you and uh if it works out I'd love
to uh be on your live with you
um appreciate it all right one of my
fellow Armenians here uh shot yeah uh
donated 20 bucks thank you brother I
appreciate it he says just got I don't
know if you can see the message he says
just got my beijing's Queen Live tickets
see you guys soon God bless oh hell yeah
so shout out to the people that are
action takers that's not waiting that's
right already the uh you guys were
buying tickets already I'm telling you
this thing is going to sell out quick uh
brother can't wait to see you out there
it's going to be an awesome time and
earlier I saw a post someone said hey
are you coming out to Australia uh it's
not for sure yet because this big
organization is looking to hire me and
to have me speak into three big States
or uh provinces Brisbane uh Sydney and
Melbourne so if it works out what is it
summer of 2024 I think so if it all
works out summer of 2024 I may be in
Australia and uh if I am I'll be
announcing that for all my Australian
friends to uh I'd love to meet you guys
and see you guys I know so I'll let you
guys know how to get tickets to that
event for sure there we go shout out to
snazz in Australia all right anyways it
was a great time we appreciate all of
you guys liking the video sharing the
link with anybody just watching and
asking your questions we appreciate it
it's always a good time getting together
and going live yeah guys this has been
been a meaningful experience for me I
love going live and I love the fact that
you guys all contribute and donate money
through the Super Chat so that we can
give money to Shriners Children's
Hospital everything single penny that
you guys donate I match and then we
donate Joan my assistant sends to uh
Shriners children's hospital and it's
because of you we're helping kids we're
helping change the trajectory of this
planet I can't wait to see you guys at
bedrose cooling live on September 8th
and 9th in Costa Mesa California so go
ahead and register for that at better
schooling.com forward slash live and
also I want you to remember this that
average is the enemy that success is
your responsibility and change can truly
take place in an instant if you decide
to flip the switch thank you so much
guys peace out
yeah cool