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hey welcome to uh what is a special
special
addition to real life and that is we're
going to just dive right into answering
some questions regarding the conference
i spoke at recently here in southern
california entitled let parents decide
and it was a gathering of educators and
administrators and parents regarding the
california comprehensive sex education
that is being not only introduced to
california but states across the nation
so listen without any delay let's get
into
answering some questions that have come
out of the let parents decide conference
on california's comprehensive sex
education
that in an orange county school
this experimentation is going on the
the kid about gender gender neutral
bathrooms general neutral showers so the
boy goes in junior high he goes into the
girl's showers
identifying as the female he goes into
the girl showers the the girls are
shocked
uh and he's quite maybe surprised or
maybe it was a stunt who knows
but he goes into the girl's shower he's
naked they're naked
and all of a sudden there's uh he he
realizes that
wow
uh
this turns me on
and he's no longer
uh
so the girls see this and they start
screaming and they start running out of
the showers
and the boy is in there aroused
and ward gets to the
p.e teacher female you got to go in
there wait what's happening there
there's a guy in there and he's he's uh
he's there he's he's aroused this
rightfully so the school teacher said
the female school teacher the coach says
i can't go in there
i'm not going in there
stop play this out come on people use
your brains
this is public school
we got leaders in california saying it's
okay
and now you got a schoolteacher pe
teacher's saying i'm not going in there
because
if i go in there
what if something happens what if the
guy jumps on me or what if i get accused
of i'm not going in
so then they call for the man the mail
coach
the mail coach comes in and the coach
says what's up and they said get in
there and he says i am not
going into the girl shower
who knows what will be said after that
and i don't know
you got a guy identifying as a girl but
now he's he's obviously an aroused male
i'm not going in there because i don't
know how this is going to go do you know
what they had to do
they wound up calling i won't name the
city
they wound up calling the city pd
and police in tandem a male and female
went in
until the boy was able to make his way
back out into
in public
real world
you think that's normal if you do you're
sick
you're perverted
you're living in an age where good is
evil and evil is good
and what gave you the right to
think that you have the authority to
expose your experiment to our children
parents in california have got eithers i
don't know what it is stop making money
stop goofing off get off the internet
stop playing games i don't know what it
is but we got to get back to parenting
it's parenting it's loving our kids
enough to sacrifice it's loving our kids
enough to go without the extra boat to
go without the airplane to go without
the gucci wardrobe whatever we got to do
kids first
we got to protect them there's a system
that is going to destroy them
well listen i hope that that um has just
at the most basic level
uh seized your attention i i sure hope
it does that it has
caused you to almost catch your breath
as a parent
or maybe you are hoping to be a parent
someday maybe you're a grandparent
look this this dynamic
uh no one can escape because we're
talking about if if you don't mind me
putting it so bluntly we're talking
about polluting a generation for the
rest of their lives with perversion
and with confusion
and we could go on
all day regarding parenting
proper parenting what does it mean to be
a parent the responsibilities of being a
parent and don't get me started but i
would to go off on being a pastor in the
pulpit among god's people
to train us for these very very
dangerous days but that's for some other
time
listen uh regarding what's natural when
you hear such things
would be questions and some questions
have come into us
and so i want to just bring a couple to
your attention by the way these
represent quite uh quite a few although
i i'll go through a couple of them
many questions were of this
genre and one of them is so natural it's
it makes so much sense and that's the
question someone writes and asks uh
what's the proper age to talk about sex
to your uh child what's the proper age
and that is a great question first of
all number one as a parent you know your
kid
you know in fact if you have multiple
children each of them are obviously so
very different
as to their maturity level and their
curiosity level
that's going to be developed at
different times for each of them so
parent you need to be sensitive to that
but let's go this way let's let's
consider this the question you've asked
is what's the age what's the proper time
is what you're really asking for you to
teach your child
so i would start right here number one
understand this that you do not need to
give your child more than what they can
handle don't think that your first birds
and the bees
message to your child has got to be
exhaustive and has got to be an hour and
a half long
and all of this kind of stuff no no no
listen be very wise
and when your child for example asks the
question
hey mom dad where do puppies come from
your simple response can be to them
from a daddy puppy and a mommy puppy and
if they say oh and they walk away
that's all you need to do
if they say oh
is that all
well that little one is fishing and they
need answers and so important you give
them the answer and so again let out a
little bit more line uh maybe your next
answer to that question would be yep
that's the way that god has made them a
male and a female just like there's
mommy and daddy
just like there's a boy dog and and lady
dog you know
so that's how they come together that
they make puppies that way uh boy and
uh girl or mommy and daddy puppies if
they keep pushing it
then you keep responding so in this
illustration let's say they keep pushing
it
and so what you want to do then is
realize okay this little guy he's not
getting away from the topic and so we
are going to create immediately a safe
space to talk about this in other words
if there's other kids around
don't do it if little
brother little sisters around
don't do it what you would say is hey
you know what let's talk later today
about that i won't forget and we'll be
sure or i'll be sure to answer that
question so fast forward now
you guys get back together or it is
concluded that it's a safe space and you
can talk about it
you can then begin to say to them
remember age appropriate
that this is what happens
when
it's time for
a baby to be born god puts these
thoughts and these ideas in our minds so
in in the life of a male for example the
the man
the thought would be i want to have a
family
and the female the mom would say or the
mom to be is yes i think it's great that
we
pray and we plan on having a family and
so you begin to start there with that
always reading their curiosity
level if they begin to ask you well
i noticed mommy daddy i noticed that
there's a difference between me
and uh baby sister or
me and you see what i'm saying then you
now begin to go on yes there is a
difference and and the difference is for
this reason god made us male and female
so that we might populate have babies
yeah yeah but how does that work and as
that begins to envelop always allow them
to draw it out
and there's a lot going on in this
because you are actually creating a very
beautiful safe area of dialogue with
your child in an area that by nature
they will increasingly become more
excited and sensitive and curious about
and mom and dad it is absolutely
essential that they get those answers
from you
and not the knucklehead down the street
or the person in the school system so
that listen by doing it your way in the
confines of your own family and in home
where the conversation is presented and
the questions are answered guess what
you're doing no matter what happens down
the street or in the public school
you've defused their power to manipulate
your child's mind
and
that information which is so important
has come from you the authority you the
parent
so we need to take this area back and so
if they keep pressing and keep pressing
then what you want to do there are great
ministries like
familylife.org or familylife.com
focus on the family
many
ministries are out there to help the
christian parent
walk through
age-appropriate sex education
a lot of great stuff so you have to do
it alone and experts uh will will give
you those details on how to do that so
you're not alone but by all means you
must answer these questions so i hope
that helps a little bit at least that
would get you started
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welcome to real life radio with jack
hibbs god's word never will return void
god's word is spirit it's power and it
has its effect
so i want to encourage you to grab your
bibles open them up and get ready to
learn from god's word
god did not give us bible prophecy to
scare us but to prepare us
but i think you're going to get a lot
out of it and one of the great reasons
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you are the light of the world jesus
said you are the salt of the earth how
does it happen by the power of the holy
spirit
you're going to get excited about what
jesus christ wants to do in and through
you
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in this church after a sunday service
right outside that foyer in the
left-hand
a side parent mom came up to me raising
two daughters
and she said pastor jack
kids are back in school
and my daughter came home
and she said mommy
i might be a boy
and
i didn't know what to say
and i said to her
i understand that but what did you say
i i i didn't know what to say no no i
understand that
what did you tell her
i didn't tell her anything
i was flabbergasted
she was uh the daughter was 11.
i said where is she oh she's she what oh
she's over there
i said where's your husband
we're divorced
ask your little girl to come here
she came over she sat down with mommy
and i and her little seven-year-old
sister
and i said hey sweetie i'm pastor jack i
teach your mommy the bible here
and your mommy tells me that
your teacher at school said that you
might be a boy
yes that's right
do you think you're a boy
no
why why do you why do you not think
you're a boy
well because i'm not a boy
i go that's right you're not a boy
you're not a boy innocent sweetheart
people are going to try to put things in
your head thoughts in your head
and i want you to remember something
god made you a girl and if you ever if
you ever get confused
you can look and see that by
biologically
you're a girl
but sweetheart i want you to know that
god made you a girl because he's got a
great plan for you
he wants to make you an amazing woman
and he wants he doesn't make mistakes
sweetheart
and so i want you to be a strong little
girl and i want you to have fun as a
little girl and i want you to dress up
and you have fun and you when your
mommy's putting bling on you put some
bling on too
and you guys get your nails done
and you do all the stuff that you look
at your mind the mommy was definitely
pretty and female and she was not
confused and i said you look at mommy
and you you you celebrate being a girl
with mommy okay and she goes she was
okay
and end the story took about five
minutes
and that mom turned to me with tears in
her eyes
and she said i want to thank you
but i'm also so convicted
because i could have said that you
didn't tell me anything new pastor jack
listen i just didn't feel like it was my
place to tell her
no listen
that's the world our young people now
live in
how do you come to the place where
got these people who have children
and say oh no no no doctor we are not
going to declare their gender
you know which is illegal for a doctor
to do you know doctors got to do it did
you know that
the doctor's got to say if it's a male
or female the doctor when your baby was
born he didn't look up facebook and ask
which one of the 78 genders
you know why he's a scientist
doctor the nurse or scientist
so if i'm an la county paramedic and i'm
rushing to a scene of an accident
and i come up to a scene and there's
blood everywhere and there's metal
everywhere and i start ministering
care and love and medical attention
if all else is confused let me tell you
something right now
if if this person is alive but but
mangled to the point you can't tell who
it is you're going to find out am i
dealing with a male or female right now
why because the meds i'm going to
administer to them matters if they're a
male or a female or not because if i
give them the wrong stuff laying out
here as a fire paramedic on the highway
i could kill him then i'm going to go to
jail for being a
negligent at my job no i need to know if
this is a male or female i need to know
what kind of hematocrit what kind of
blood source what kind of deal what's
the issue how much of this how much of
that you know that
so what if the what if the paramedic
does save the guy and he makes it to the
hospital but winds up being crippled or
something and finds out that he was
treated by la county uh fire department
paramedic as a male but he identifies as
a female he turns around and he blames
his
blindness or his his loss of his arm on
the fact that guy should have treated
emergency care for me as a female
because i identify as a female
you ever think about that
and it's happening
so paul told timothy watch out in the
last days there's going to be those that
will call science
science but it's false
it's time to go to holy war
in defense of our families and our
children because listen our state has
robbed us of the institution of marriage
and now they're going after your child
and when i sit down with a married
couple
and i'm talking to them
and the husband says i just
i work long hours
i work
10 12 16 hours a day
and
i come home to this
the fill-in was this the mom had a very
high
uh what's the word very expensive
appetite
what's the word
standard of a living high standard of
living a lot of high wants
high maintenance okay that's that's
bluntly putting it
so the guy he tells us in the meeting i
have to work all the time because she
has to drive this car she has to wear
this these clothes and have that person
have that watch and then this she's got
to go to hollywood to have this done and
this then that thing and this thing i
have to work all the time
but
when i came home
i saw my three-year-old son going down
the hallway
with her her nightgown wrapped around
him which
he didn't know what it was but
he had her high heels on and he said
don't
don't put don't let him do that have him
put my flip-flops on or something but
he'd come home again and the little guys
three years old four years old five
years old never changed never changed
wearing mommy's jewelry
wearing putting on mommy's bra at five
and the father kept saying stop this now
so she calls us up and she's saying
she's being mentally abused by her
husband
so when everything begins to get
unpacked
by the time it gets unpacked
you have a little boy
who has from the beginning been allowed
to wear female clothing
painted nails
lipstick and uh blush or whatever
and that that that woman made him
associate with the female gender
when early on years earlier i said have
him put on when you see him wearing
mommy's
jewelry have go out to the garage and
have him put on daddy's work gloves
and have him smell them
know that there's a difference
when you see him wearing mommy's high
heels tell her tell him listen take
those off you're a boy put on daddy you
want to play it want to play house put
on daddy's boots
you know you this is called are you
sitting down this is called parenting
when a child is young the bible says
you're to raise them up in the way
that they should go
that's why they come out naked
so you can identify what they are
so you can point them in the way that
they should go
it's not hard
it's not a problem
parents
are abusing their children
it starts physically by this it leads
then to mental abuse
of the child
it will lead to aberrant sexuality
which leads to death
all because
we have abandoned the post of parenting
america didn't have these problems like
america does now
because america's never had homes broken
like they do now
if america is going to be healed the
family's got to be healed and the family
is going to be healed mom and or dad
needs to come to christ
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this question is the most i think for me
the one that is
said to me the most it's not even a
question it's more of a statement
and that is oh you know what pastor
or experts i think you've blown this out
of proportion listen
i did go and talk to someone i know
who's a public school teacher they said
oh no that's not happening
someone has said i did call the school
board they said no no we would never do
that
and yet lo and behold
uh
elements and or this being taught
full-blown is in effect
here's what we've learned and from the
panel of experts that spoke at the
conference
is that
for example
the authorities in california they have
deliberately even cloaked this education
and have kept it uh very much unaware to
the school authorities and even the
teacher they
did not even give this graphic data you
say jack come on come on i thought you
would have that response and so i've
anticipated someone's saying exactly
that oh come on that's been blown up
that's crazy well
what i've done here is i've gotten
uh images on my phone from the
comprehensive sex education program it's
a it's it's curriculum and it's
supplemental
books and data that the teachers are
using so
uh and i'm far enough away from the
camera to not offend you close enough to
maybe perhaps get you to
to see enough this is the gender bred
man
and this little image is all about uh
the child having the ability to name
their private parts or to actually deny
their private parts based upon how they
feel okay this is a sexual contact
sexual contact chart and this one is for
seven-year-olds for example at the top
it says mouth to penis penis to mouth
next one vagina to mouth mouth to vagina
next line
a penis to vagina vagina to penis
and then uh bottom one anus to penis
penis to anus
seven-year-olds
seven-year-olds are you offended
you should be offended if you're not
offended
uh
that's for another program on real life
i'm telling you uh here's uh a booklet
called who are you
and you get to pick who you are there's
a development or there's another screen
here that shows that
the teacher is on the chalkboard with a
child
and at the top it says i am and the
child gets to pick
uh i'm a boy i'm a girl i'm neither
i'll decide later
i believe this is mental abuse by the
way friends this is a lie against
technology it's a lie against science
it's a lie against chemistry and biology
this is supplemental education it's
called it's perfectly normal is the
title of the book
it's perfectly normal they show two guys
with each other they show two girls with
each other they show a boy sitting on
his bed and it tells them what
lubricants to use for masturbation
and
then there's an image here which is
incredibly offensive it says that if you
if the if the kids don't have access to
condoms because they're expensive you
can go to your kitchen drawer probably
and you can use saran wrap and you can
put saran wrap around your penis for
oral sex
or you can push saran wrap upon
uh the the little girl's bottom and you
can do oral sex with the protection of a
saran wrap and here's the image of that
so that they're not confused at all by
this
so listen my dear friends i hope that
has raised the bar of alarm i hope that
you can hear the ringing as it were of a
claxton just
chiming in your head an urgency
i mean if they're if we hear an alarm go
off and the firemen are going down the
poles and they're jumping into the
trucks and they're taking off or the the
ambulance is rolling or the police are
in route
this is exactly how it ought to be for
us parents right now over these issues
this is such an important thing to me
that numerous times i was going to show
those images to the church i pastor i in
an all adult setting mind you i was
going to show the entire church these
images because their children's lives
are at stake on this
and perhaps happily i was overruled by
my wife and staff and they said don't do
it
and they made my point
don't show it to adults
but it's okay to show it to kids
i am asking you to find out about your
local community and dig dig and dig
parents i hope this has empowered you
grandma and grandpa i hope this has
energized you to find out more and if
you're a public school educator and
administrator
i hope that you take this very seriously
because quite frankly
it's time for the parent
to take back their authority given to
them by god
and that the parent realized that no one
has their child's best interest in mind
than the parent
so listen thanks for viewing this
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next time
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welcome to real life radio with jack
hibbs god's word never will return void
god's word is spirit it's power and it
has its effect
so i want to encourage you to grab your
bibles open them up and get ready to
learn from god's word
god did not give us bible prophecy to
scare us but to prepare us
but i think you're going to get a lot
out of it and one of the great reasons
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you are the light of the world jesus
said you are the salt of the earth how
does it happen by the power of the holy
spirit
you're going to get excited about what
jesus christ wants to do in and through
you
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you