because I'm here to tell you that the
dad bot is ruining you it's ruining your
kids and it's ruining the community it's
ruining this country
welcome to the bedrose coolian show hey
friends welcome to the bedrose cooling
show my name is bedrose coolian and I've
got crazy news for you I have discovered
the most dangerous man in the world
that's right I've discovered the most
dangerous man in the world I'm going to
tell you all about this man
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me tell you guys about the most
dangerous man in the world so there I
was the other day having an amazing
steak dinner had a very formal
Steakhouse here in beautiful Southern
California and when I walked into the
restaurant I took notice that there was
some men who were sitting at a table
enjoying their steak dinner as as we
walked to our table
we sat in a very big dining area and I
noticed again there was many tables and
all of these men who were sitting at
those tables had one thing in common
they were all pear-shaped they all
looked like they had dad bods they had
these these
round little bellies and they had sharp
pointy little titties and they had
narrow shoulders and I'm not here to rip
on anyone but I am here to tell you that
as I observe what was happening in this
beautiful high-end restaurant I realized
that I'm surrounded by dad bods right
and I don't know how you feel about Dad
bods I know there were some surveys out
there that talked about how women find
Dad bods attractive I'm also going to
tell you something about that in just a
minute and we'll get to it but I
realized that the most dangerous type of
man on the planet is the man who carries
the dad bot and I'm going to explain to
you guys why this is because as I'm
sitting there enjoying my beautiful
steak dinner
I'm realizing that these men are
insecure that they were having a hard
time making eye contact with one another
when they were talking
and since I'm a very observant person
it wasn't lost on me that the insecurity
was a byproduct of their body types many
of them were wearing collared shirts
like dress shirts that are buttoned up
and you could tell that they were
uncomfortable In Their Skin you could
also tell that because all of them carry
the same type of dad bod that they felt
that this was now normalized and it's
okay to walk around looking like a
schwepp rock and I'm here to tell you
guys that it is not because you are the
most dangerous kind of man if you were
carrying a dad bod and if you're either
proud of it or you feel like there's
nothing wrong with it because there's
everything wrong with it because I'm
here to tell you that the dad bod is
ruining you it's ruining your kids
and it's ruining the community it's
ruining this country and I'm going to
break that down for you because I don't
want to just make a bold statement like
that without giving you the reasons
behind it right
see when a man carries a dad bod when a
man is 30 40 50 pounds overweight
and he's shaped like a pear or a pumpkin
right skinny little legs uh wide
midsection and belly narrow shoulders no
PEC muscles just all titties
what you end up doing is you end up
putting your body at risk and I'm
talking about it these are men in their
30s
and 40s
like I'm 48 years old I can look at
another man engage his age these were
dudes in their 30s and 40s who had no
business being built like that however
they have accepted it and we'll get to
the reason why in just a moment but you
become a liability to humanity when you
have a dad bod when you carry 30 40 50
pounds overweight and you're probably
wondering well that's a bold statement
wouldn't mean I'm the most dangerous man
in the world well you're dangerous
because you are not an asset
in that moment I realized that if
something went off in that restaurant
if there was either a a mass shooting or
if there was someone that had to be
restrained and many of you have heard my
story about how I was on a on an
airplane several years ago sitting there
in first class minding my business when
I had to restrain a [ __ ] who was
a Flight Risk by getting him in a
Chokehold and myself and another
gentleman were able to take him down and
zip tie him like the flight attendants
wanted us to and we ended up sitting
security with him in the back the irony
there is that do I had my first class
ticket I spent the rest of the four
hours of the five-hour flight sitting in
the way back because they wanted to put
the bad guy away from the cockpit
sitting security and hearing this guy
talk about how he was going to kill us
and what I'm here to tell you that as
I'm looking around at that restaurant I
it was I was hard-pressed to realize
that there's no Ally for me if something
went down there was no Ally that I could
count on to help me
secure people to help me fight off a bad
guy and this isn't about what I'm
looking for
I'm realizing that each one of these
people they have a wife or a girlfriend
with them they probably want to protect
that wife or girlfriend they probably
and the tables were there was all men I
imagine they have a spouse at home maybe
some of them have kids at home and they
want to be able to make it back to their
kids
but they've become a liability
and if you think I'm being a pessimist
by saying look what if something
happened in that Steakhouse I mean we're
hearing about people doing wacky things
in wacky places these days right so to
me it's not that far-fetched to me it's
not far-fetched for a man to be prepared
for anything but this is beyond being
prepared to fight or to defend yourself
or to be able to take someone down this
is straight up when I say ruining your
life
you are literally pre-diabetic
you are hypertensive as in high blood
pressure you probably already have your
arteries getting clogged up with
cholesterol
and at the age of 30 or 40 living a
sedentary life and just keeping yourself
fit enough
to stay alive is not enough
you may have all seen that video
and while it wasn't a man it was a woman
I think it was a woman maybe in her late
30s early 40s she was massively
overweight she took her child out of the
car put the child in the stroller in the
parking lot and the stroller started to
roll away and she fell and was unable to
get up
if you've seen that video and how many
times she attempted to get up because
she was so overweight
it was so sad seeing that stroller
heading towards the thoroughfare where
there was cars coming by thankfully
there was someone who came running
through and stopped the stroller brought
it back to her and of course helped her
up
if you cannot manage your own weight
Your Own Strength
and if you are diabetic pre-diabetic
because you're probably thinking well
dude I don't my doctor hasn't told me
anything yeah well doesn't mean you're
not pre-diabetic does not mean you're
not pre-hypertensive does not mean
that your bones are becoming more porous
because if you know anything about
exercising and working out then you know
that your body develops stronger bones
when you strengthen your muscles right
and many decades from now you're going
to want those stronger bones because
we've all heard about Grandma and
Grandpa slipping in the shower and
breaking their hip and ending up in some
kind of hospice for the rest of their
natural lives because they were unable
to recover
what I want to do
is make sure that I'm not a liability to
my family today
by being fat overweight sick
having the precursors of disease
cancer grows in obesity and fat
right we know that hypertension
heart disease
we know that diabetes all of these
things are promoted through obesity
and the most dangerous man in America
today
because if you take all of the dad
bodies I started doing the research on
this and you think all of those dad bods
and you bring them all together in one
state that state would be larger than
Texas I did the research
tell me that's not a dangerous dangerous
way to live right
and it would be like a country larger
than Australia
the number of men that we have that are
pear-shaped that are weak that can't
carry their own weight that are
hypertensive that are pre-diabetic
that have cholesterol issues
at such a young age is it an all-time
high
and if you have a family you are ruining
them as well not just your health but by
putting yourself at risk and putting
yourself in a position where you're
unable to provide for them you now put
yourself in a position
where they have to figure out what to do
with you
when you have that heart attack when you
become diabetic when you might have that
stroke and all of this is preventable
and we'll talk about that in a minute
so the reason I'm talking about this is
when I say you know these dad bods these
these dudes if you're one of them you're
carrying that extra weight you're
ruining not only yourself but also your
kids
how often do you tell your kids that hey
you should exercise you should eat right
you should care about your health you
should get out and get some sun you
should run you should work out
but you know your kids are not listening
to the words you say
they're modeling the actions that you
live
and if you're carrying excessive weight
if you're inactive and then you're
blaming the fact that while I'm too busy
I have to provide for my family I don't
have the time to do it I don't know
where to start I'm here to tell you that
all of those are excuses for
procrastination and fellas I say this to
you because I love you
you are a danger to yourself to your own
personal health you're a danger to your
kids and your family because you are a
poor role model an example of how your
kids are going to end up
I'm going to tell you something and if
you're like no no my kids want to end up
looking like me I'm going to give them
an advantage untrue
you guys all know that we run a an event
for Fathers and Sons called The Squire
program at the Squire program
we talk about
keeping your body fit healthy having
mental and emotional health as well we
talk about having a morning routine that
sets you up to get W's wins in your life
and we talk about how we are soft habits
today can become hard habits tomorrow if
you continue to live a life of poor
discipline and laziness
and at some point at The Squire program
when we separate the sons from the
fathers
and the instructors that go with the
sons are taking them through a different
evolution
and some exercises I get to spend time
with the fathers and I'm the one that
has to tell these fathers that hey you
look like a pear your son looks like a
pear you look like a pumpkin your son
looks like a pumpkin
you are tall and lanky your son is tall
and lanky you are fit and jacked your
son is fit and jacked because the
reality is the apple does not fall far
from the tree and you know that to be
true
and so I'm curious why it is then that
you allow yourself to carry this Dad bod
to be 30 40 50 100 pounds overweight
and I know no one has brought it up to
you
and I'm the one willing to bring it up
to you because when I go to a steakhouse
and I observe my peers I realize
that they are letting
inertia take over
the momentum of Life the inertia of life
and what ends up happening is you
develop these
unfortunate habits
of getting your Starbucks getting
something sugary first thing in the
morning eating shitty food
and then going out to have lunch with
your friends from work and eating more
shitty food
staying dehydrated all day living off
coffee and soda probably and energy
drinks you know that to be true
poisoning your body letting it fall
apart in atrophy letting it get diseased
only to hear in your late 40s and 50s
that you've got what prostate cancer
that you've got heart disease early
onset heart disease diabetes
that you might lose your lose your foot
because of diabetes is that worth it
what is the trauma that that's going to
deliver to your kids
and I share this with you because then
when I talk about it you're also ruining
our country
every single one of us individually as
we come together as a community in the
country
represent the United States
and today more than 60 percent of
Americans are obese
listen
some might say this is Politically
Incorrect but I'm here to tell you that
us men are the leaders us men get to set
the standards Us Men set the bar
and y'all have set the bar so low in
life
that has become accepted
that it is okay to look like a pear or a
pumpkin so early on in life and the
exclusive I don't have time that I'm too
busy providing and protecting my family
that is that is an absolute lie listen
man
for the last 20 years I've been building
companies
I've been keeping myself in the red
and in that time
I constantly make time for the things
that matter
and most people will make excuses for
the things that they don't value
so you're either making excuses or
you're going to make the time because
you certainly know the score of your
favorite football team baseball team
basketball team you know everybody's
stats you know who won you know all the
shows to watch on Netflix and Hulu and
Amazon Prime you certainly binge watch
the [ __ ] out of everything and anything
just so you can talk about it at the
water cooler but then you'll tell me in
the comments that you don't have time
you're tired you're too busy providing
that is an excuse you will absolutely
make time for that you value and you
will absolutely make excuses for that
you don't I'm letting you know that you
don't value your health my friend
now let's talk about this because in
2014 2015 survey started to pop out that
women are actually attracted to Dad bods
what an absolute lie that is if you
think that women are actually attracted
to Dad bods bro you're nuts every woman
is genetically coded to look for the
most
physically fit
financially Stout
mentally strong
intelligent man
because they realize that is the man
that they want to have a child with
build a family with because that is the
man that is going to ensure their
survival at the highest level
however
what you see on the survey is different
than what I just told you
you see because
it is the majority of the insecure women
out there who are responding to surveys
like that and for them
they do want a dad bod but not because
they're attracted to the dadbod but
because the guy who carries himself
30 40 50 100 pounds overweight
he's more docile he's easier to control
and manage
and Truth is he sets and accepts a low
standard which means she can be fat and
floppy as well
and what does that mean
he's less likely to step out on her he's
less likely
to argue with her he's more likely
to fall in line
now again I don't have proof that the
majority of the woman who responded to
these surveys
were insecure but I can tell you
that 48 years old and having been around
a lot of men and women in my time
that the women that I've talked to the
women that I've experienced
in terms of communication what their
needs and wants are
all the confident ones all the ones that
have a path in life all the secure women
are looking for a dude
who was fit athletic financially Stout
intelligent able to solve problems
because genetically that guy
is desirable
for an insecure woman she wants the
broken winged the broken horned guy who
is limping along in life and all of you
dudes out there who are carrying that
Dad bod have put yourself in a position
to only be attractive
to insecure
out of shape
low self-esteem women and that's
unfortunate
because I believe and this might be a
little old school mentality but I
believe that it is a man's job to raise
the expectations of everyone around him
it is our job as Leaders to raise the
standards of everybody around us that
includes our kids that includes our
friends and peers that includes our
wives
right and if we can do that we are now
building a community and one Community
after another ends up being a city or a
county or a country
and it is our jobs to make America great
again it ain't going to be trump it
ain't going to be Biden it's going to be
you and me but unless you're willing
to let go of this mindset
that the dad bod is okay to carry
because all of your other peers have the
same type of body and therefore it's
become acceptable I'm here to tell you
that it is very damaging to who you are
in terms of your personal health by the
way you probably hate yourself too if
you want to be honest
I mean you probably hate yourself
there's a good amount of self-hate
because a man knows a man knows that
there's a certain level of potential in
him a certain level of potential to make
money there's a certain level of
potential in you to be fit there's a
certain level of potential in terms of
love there's a certain level of
potential in terms of fulfillment
and when a man is far from those
potentials he begins to hate himself he
begins to experience guilt he begins to
experience
anxiety and depression that is your
conscience speaking to you because when
you are complacent and lazy
undisciplined
you become depressed anxious and carry
self-hate and if you're caring self-hate
how do you think you're going to love
anybody around you
you can't you can't show love to your
friends you can't show love to your wife
you can't show love to your kids not to
the depth and to the measure
that those people need
and this is why I believe divorces
happen you hate yourself so much that
you transfer that hate to your kids your
friends your work your spouse your
relationship
and I believe it is a man's Duty it is a
man's obligation to keep himself fit and
athletic
but it goes beyond that right
because if you know anything about me I
don't necessarily believe that there's a
God out there I do believe in Universal
Consciousness I do believe when someone
says God I just hear the universe right
so let's just use the word God and
whatever your belief system is
I'm on board with that right now
if God created you
and he created you in His image
because I don't necessarily believe in
God does not mean I don't understand
the terminologies and that I don't
understand the Quran or the Bible
or that I don't understand spirituality
and religion
because I'm a man that does research I'm
a man that studies and I'm a man that
thinks for myself
and so if God created you in His image
would you ever disrespect your creator
that way by poisoning your body
with the Cheetos that you're eating with
the energy drink that you're sucking
down with the slices of pizza that
you're stuffing down your gullet so that
you can have those floppy gelatinous
little titties
would you ever disrespect your creator
that way if you are truly a godly man
like you say you are you go to church
every Sunday
hell you even go on Wednesdays
because you were that extra kind of guy
what's up with you bro
what's up with you that you are
disrespecting your creator
what a shame that is how unfortunate is
that
could you imagine that
that a man who believes a godly man who
believes in a higher power created him
in his image and said I will bless you
with potential
not that I will make you the best
version of yourself but I will bless you
with potential and your greatest work in
life
is to reach that potential
Financial potential Health potential
mental potential love potential
relational potential
physical potential
and instead you poison your body you
erode your muscles you welcome disease
and with disease and obesity and fat and
lethargy
comes depression and anxiety and the
mental disease first you begin to
disease your body from the inside
physically and then it carries into your
mental and emotional state fellas
and so whatever the argument is
I've got you cornered
because I believe
that the true meaning of life
is fulfillment of potential and
self-mastery and if you watch or listen
to the show then you know that to be
true then you I'm guessing you agree
with me unless you just have so much
free time on your hands you like to
watch this show episode after episode
but not necessarily agree or apply what
we teach here right
and God damn it I'm telling you this
because I love you I care for you
I want to be able to respect you but I
cannot respect you and that's the next
thing I want to talk about is that God
doesn't respect you if you are
disrespecting him by not living in His
image that what he created you for
if he created you with a certain level
of potential and you are not working
hard to reach that potential and if
you're like but I am Babe Ruth I am
working hard to reach my potential that
God put in me you are with a fat floppy
body that's diseased that has low energy
that has no strength that has no ability
of endurance to go through the hard
times the inevitable hardships of life
you have to be physically strong I'm not
talking about just be jacked so that you
can look good in a [ __ ] tank top and
three inch shorts
I'm talking about being fit and athletic
having endurance so that you can be a
role model to your kids so that you
could be a role model to your community
and Country so that you will have a
lengthy healthy life
without being a liability to your family
so that God will not feel disrespected
as he made you in His image right
so where is it and if you want my
respect
and if you want my respect and you want
their respect of others who have made it
in life
who are successful who are doing
something great who are working hard 20
[ __ ] years I've been working towards
my greatest potential in every category
of life
so what gives you the right to be
respected at the same level that I am
it doesn't you can't and therefore I
can't respect you I want to respect you
I will love you from afar as a brother I
will message to you I will speak into
you
but I cannot respect you
and I need you to respect yourself first
because if you did
then you would do these things that
we're going to talk about next so what
now what do we do now
it's simple enough
you exercise you exercise daily you
exercise first thing in the morning I'm
telling you if you're the kind of person
that is exercising at night
that better be your second workout of
the day
because you are not going to have enough
energy
enough willpower enough Thunder in the
gas tank to bring it in the evenings
after a long work day
and therefore you are again
putting your body
last and when you put your body last
your body is the first Domino that your
mind and your emotions and your money
and your relationships follow
that's just the case
now is that to say that everyone who's
lean and jacked also makes a lot of
money also has great relationships
absolutely not
but those same traits that it takes to
burn fat build muscle
to eat clean to fuel your body to stay
focused and disciplined
to delay gratification all of those
things by the way
is what's required to be financially
successful as an entrepreneur
or as someone who's working his way up
in a career
like if you really want to do well in
life in your marriage
in your relationships with your kids
with your family in love in friendships
business
you ought to consider working out and
eating right because when you do
and you make the focus
on your abs like I want abs I want I
want to see muscle separation
I want to see veins and vascularity
across my body
when you make that your focus see first
you're going to think this guy is very
vain he's very visually
committed to how the male physique looks
like
untrue to get to that physique it takes
a high level of focus discipline
consistency delayed gratification
sacrifice
and it takes all those traits for a
great marriage takes all those traits
for a great successful business takes
all those traits to win your sovereignty
and Financial Freedom takes all those
traits to be loved and respected and
admired by your peers
the reality is people don't respect an
undisciplined unfocused inconsistent
person who flip-flops in life they just
don't you know that
everybody
respects someone who's focused
disciplined fit financially Stout
able to articulate intelligent
someone who knows how to communicate
like look at all these things are a
byproduct of getting fit because again
Focus discipline delayed gratification
consistency all of those things are a
byproduct of fitness and they're a
byproduct of a successful man so I'm
here to tell you fellas if you want to
stay
fat pear-shaped pumpkin shaped
to be a bad role model to your kids and
family
to put yourself In Harm's Way in terms
of disease
if you want that Domino to lead to
mental and emotional weakness
you want to showcase what real
complacency and laziness looks like
great man keep rocking that Dad bod
but don't be surprised
when you're not getting the respect
when you're not where you want to be in
life
when your kids are not listening to you
in terms of
a path to walk in life because they
don't respect you
even your creator doesn't respect you
because he made you in His image and
you've chosen to poison that image
to poison that vehicle
so if there's anything you can do it is
to eat right it is to train hard it is
to keep a positive mental attitude
it is to focus on becoming a
battle-ready Savage man and when you
make that commitment to becoming a
battle-ready Savage man
you will have the money
the meaning the Legacy
the focus
the relationship and the sovereignty
that you're looking for and above all
you'll have the respect the respect of
the people that you look up to you will
now become a peer of them
so friends thank you for watching and
listening to this episode of the bedrose
coolian show and remember is always
average is the enemy success is your
responsibility and change can take place
in an instant if you are willing to flip
the switch I love you all talk soon