I wanted to get married when I was 15
years old and I told my dad dad I want
to get married and he looked at me goes
he goes you're too young I said well
what do you talk I thought you know a
lot of 15 year olds they think they're
done they're growing I thought so you
know I was like I was six one or two I'm
like all right and my dad said no no
maybe 18. then someone came and they
told me this is what you should do he
goes I want you you have to decide who
you want to marry I'm like well that's a
good point it's a good point what if my
dad had said yes ma'am where do I go
where do I go who do I where do I find
this so this person told me get out a
piece of paper and write down the
qualities that you respect in a wife
that you want for your own wife so
that's what I did I got a legal piece of
paper I remember I had 33 lines and I
wrote down
equality on every single line I want her
to be trustworthy I want her to be
someone who's devout someone who prays
not just when I'm around like whether
I'm era she has a relationship with God
I'm number two not number one I want her
to be lovely outdoors I want her to take
care of herself I want her to read the
scriptures Faithfully I mean I just
wrote all the stuff I wanted and then
the person told me once that's done take
your paper and erase the top my future
wife
put your name there be those things and
be confident that in the pursuit of
those things God will find you your
match that blew me away