I no longer want to be an independent
woman my last relationship was with two
men I lived loyalty faithfulness
everything that could make him happy
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yeah
I'm tired
I no longer want to be an independent
woman we know that
forget that i-n-d-e I'm good I want to
be a housewife nobody
to live
listen the next man that has good credit
stable home finances is straight baby
I'm marrying you I yes yes sir I am I'm
I'm not an alpha female no more I've
learned my lesson
baby I will be submissive to you on your
knees baby I will cook for you I will
clean for you yes daddy whatever you
need you want sex when you want it yes
sir you got
baby you want a meal at three o'clock in
the morning yes sir you got it take care
of me you know it gets too hard
because
this working two jobs although I love
being a registered nurse I love my
profession let me just work as needed
let me work when I want to work
um I'm over it I'm tired y'all so hook
up hook your look I'm looking for I'm
looking for a husband on your knees
it doesn't work that way next for the
single guys I want your opinion on
something
what
I want to hear your honest thoughts
about dating a single mom too much I'm
asking because one of the guys I dated
after my divorce
said something and those words have
stuck with me
he told me
you have three kids no one is going to
want to take you on
and let me tell you no matter how
awesome you are those words stick but I
want to know
what do you really think about that does
their age matter
younger older I mean it's not like I can
change that
I found Gloria from Madagascar
so what's it like dating in your 30s
don't recommend it don't recommend
yourself
because everything is app-based not fun
it's like window shopping but people
suck on the other end
also don't recommend being a shift
worker
doesn't make it easy
living out in the middle of nowhere
also does not make it easy but follow
along with me and you will find out what
it's like and if I can actually be
successful at it
not so fun
foreign
why is it that all you ladies who
dislike arrogance and like humbleness
want a life that is so extra and lavish
you want six-figure man you want a high
value man doing all this stuff why is it
that everyone pretends like they hate
arrogance but then their standards are
like if we're being very honest there's
about what 10 of you here maybe two or
three of you at best will get with a guy
who makes six figures or more because
it's such a small percentage by the
Numbers it's probably impossible for all
of you to get that so there is a bit of
like an arrogance to that where it's
like if you love humbleness so much why
don't you live a humble life what's
wrong with getting with a regular dude
who's got a 401k he makes 40K a year
maybe he's home at the end of the day he
takes care of the bills you guys got a
nice little house in the suburbs why is
that not enough I don't understand why
there's all this talk about like what
what I let my high value Man cheat I'm
gonna be honest with y'all most of y'all
not gonna get one foreign
Ty faithfulness everything that could
make him happy you ever hear a western
woman talking about how she's gonna make
her man happy no you know what we hear
from the West what a man can do to make
me happy what a man can bring to the
table for me what I can benefit how I
could spend his money such a good girl I
like
Good Wife
yeah I guess she's from Malaysia or
Indonesia maybe Philippines
yeah I've been studying in Malaysia
most of the girls are like that the man
is the first
yeah
you want to get married
get your passport give this whole speech
like you gotta you got to bring them in
you got to like buy the tickets like I
got I went to Indiana Jones and jaws and
every movie that Steven Spielberg's ever
made and by the way he's never made a
movie with a female lead
sorry Stephen
I don't mean to call your ass out but
it's true
The Color Purple thank you
okay I'm wrong
um
I watched this one lady she's 60 years
old she says in my 20s the feminist moon
was taken off I joined it I went and
became a courier woman and I did so well
and all I wanted to do was be better
than men be better than this and I
bought him to that philosophy today I'm
a millionaire today I'm a c-suite
executive today I've been able to have
all these shares I live in a nice house
I have all this other stuff I don't have
a husband I don't have kids because I
bought into this feminism concept and
she's now living in regret so she
regrets because the value of life you
gotta invest into things that have depth
depth is not I met you we go home we
have a good time and then I never call
you again there is that's just a release
that's just science that's just biology
so you know she eventually had to figure
it out for herself but it's too late for
her
own decisions
disappointing
trigger warning I'm conceited sometimes
I literally will think to myself my
future husband whoever he is is so lucky
like he'll get to spend the rest of his
life in my presence what an honor I will
cry at the altar just because I'm so
happy for him this is employment don't
want to get married
not approved it hasn't been hard being
monogamous with him even though I was my
last relationship was with two men
I lived in I lived with two men we had a
great relationship for several years we
traveled together it was respectful it
was great sounds good
I never want to do that again it was
exhausting it sounds exhausting
yeah I also have a friend I'm not gonna
say his name who's married has kids and
stuff who whenever he sees her he
obviously gives her [ __ ] eyes yeah like
he like looks her up and down right if
she's turned away he'll look at her ass
and all that kind of stuff he'll have
like a little smile and I watch him do
it I'm fine with him bro
very bad no no
no no no no no no no no no no no no
let's see how many times I approve next
video Let's Go I mean in the west
criteria is very high
and they all have to they all seem to
have the same criteria
they all want the same type of guy even
though they would love to admit that
they don't want the same type of guy
maybe it doesn't work out with the right
type of guy and now you move on to
another guy that you you don't feel as
happy that you are with that guy
when really and truly you wish that guy
that you really want was like the guy
that you're with now
is more what happens when you say like
out on the road that you meet people no
people women have to settle and they do
settle
when they hit the wall they settle
when they've been through too much
stress they settle
when they need money the problems they
settle
when when they when they like you know
what this guy's just on my case so much
let me just all right
that's when they settle but they they're
really trying to get that main guy and
if that main guy came when they are in a
relationship with that the guy that they
settled
hypergamy bro
in the comment please
Pam the red do you care about being
liked for your personality at all
that [ __ ]
or it's just like your status like if
you don't reach a certain status she's
not gonna give a [ __ ] about your
personality that's a reality I don't
believe that's true feminism feel so
good the first thing that somebody is
attracted to is your personality charm
and your charisma personality charm and
your charisma for me personally it's you
have to meet me at least halfway okay no
but like so if you're making 100 Grand
you would not date a guy that makes 40
Grand
I want to be able to grow from you so
the answer is no
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okay
Adam just asked you right if you can
date a guy that doesn't match your
requirements for money right what'd you
say your level or above yeah
when I said you can't even play the game
unless you're of a certain level but
then you guys want something personality
and I'm saying men can't even play
sometimes with certain types of women
and won't even get a chance unless they
rise to a certain level
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