how do you deal with those bullies in
your life the ones that just have it out
for you that no matter what you do
they're not going to be happy and
they're not going to like you well stay
tuned and I've got this really cool
demonstration that I would like to show
you it deals with water oil and dish
soap maybe you can see where I'm going
with that I don't know but I think it'd
be fun if you stayed and watched but
first let's go to Colossians 3:14 and
see what God says about um Perfect
Harmony and you want Perfect Harmony
don't you with this bully in your life
yeah okay Colossians 3:14 above all
clothe yourselves with love which binds
us all together in Perfect
Harmony cool all right so love love is
the answer yeah it
is so let's go ahead and start our
demonstration and see just how love can
make a
difference this is you water nice
you yeah you you you don't do anything
wrong right right you don't do anything
to egg on and make this bully in your
life dislike you all the more right I'm
sure you
don't this is our bully Crisco oil or
maybe you're the bully maybe this is you
and this is somebody at work that you
are
bullying which one are
you well for the sake of this video I'm
gonna say this is you nice person you
this is the bully this is the one who
just has it out for
you all right we all know what happens
when water and oil
mix there's the
bully yeah we knew it we knew that was
going to happen look at that division
you see
it right there there's your
bully and and there's
you he's on top he thinks he has it all
he he knows how to push your buttons he
knows how to make things miserable for
you at work or wherever you encounter
this
individual you've
tried you've tried to feel love right
yeah you wake up in the morning I'm just
going to feel love for this person and
I'm going to do what I can to to make
this person like me that's all in your
might and in your
power you're not using God because if
God was
involved it would it would blend a
little better right so you're just
trying on your own might to feel love as
I stated in a video before a couple
weeks ago I talked about love love is
not a feeling love is in action so we're
going to talk a little bit more about
that today this will be a quick video so
stay tuned
yep you've tried look at that still not
mixing
so we want to bring in love right we all
like well we like that word we wish our
bully did too our Dawn dish
soap we know
that um oil and oil needs an emulsifier
to bind with in order to mix with water
it's a scientific proof I learned it in
chemistry so anyway this is uh this is
love this is God's love this is 1
Corinthians 13
4-7 go there take a look read the
chapter read chapter 13 in the Bible of
First Corinthians in the Bible and it
talks to you all about love it is the
book of love the chapter of love in the
Bible so we've got our Our God's love 1
Corinthians 13 4-7 we've got you me and
our bully
what are we going to
do we're going to take 1 Corinthians 13
4-7 and we're going to see what
happens love is patient love is kind
love does not envy it does not boast it
is not proud it is not rude it is not
self-seeking it is not easily
angered it is not it keeps no records of
wrongs love does not Delight in evil but
rejoices with the truth love always
hopes always trusts and always
perseveres okay let's see what
happens we poured in our love our action
not our
feelings we're going to mix this is
God's love this is what happens when we
invite God
in look at that look how well that
Blended and mixed there you
go all
because you took 1 Corinthians 13: 4-7
and applied it applied it to this
particular
relationship
so while not it might not work on
everybody there are some people that are
just so hurt and have had such a you
know just bad experience in experiences
in life that they are just bitter beyond
measure and what it's going to take is
God to change their heart before they
will actually melt enough to open up and
and um can accept the love you're going
to give you can still do this and you
still should but also pray for them
because really it is God that can only
crack a heart that is so hardened so
like I said this is comical it's it's
kind of fun to see this demonstration
but it's it's something you should try
and it's not going to hurt at all trying
it on any person in your life that is is
a bully to you you but just know that uh
sometimes just praying for them along
with with showing them the love praying
for them that God would actually get a
hold get hold of their heart and and
crack it and let them see allow them to
see him that's going to be the only way
that they will truly heal and um will
start loving other people better so but
I thought this was kind of fun so are
you being patient are you kind do you
envy this person do you boast are you
proud at work are you too prideful is
that why they don't like
you do you are you rude to
them but don't think you are are you
self-seeking are you selfish at work or
wherever you are where this where you
encounter this
bully are you easily angered by this
person and they see it and they want to
stay away from you do you keep records
of wrongs do you tell them what they do
wrong without admitting what you've done
wrong so consider that just because if
you're doing that that's not love and
that's not going to you will have the
the
division so put in 1 Corinthians 13 4-7
a little bit of dish soap a little bit
of God's love mix it up and see what you
see what you can do see not what you can
do what God can we saw what we what
happens when we tried it stayed divided
right this is what can happen when you
allow God to take so please subscribe
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teach a Bible study locally and I have
done many studies on women's issues re
related to control uh insecurity and
fear and just the list goes on and on so
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and just kill that bully with kindness
because it's worth a try and you can
only do it with God so until next time
I'll see you later